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Aug 22, 2004 21:19

ah well....i got this problem, you see... its jus a lil problem, but yet its always on my mind. but anyways, theres this girl that i like...maybe you know her, maybe you dont. shes a really awesome girl, but if i go off about that, then this entry will be endless. my problem tho, is that she just hides her feelings so well. she has been having alot ( Read more... )

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sunset_ruby August 23 2004, 01:29:57 UTC

Well, this post being so cryptic, I really have no idea who you're talking about. But it sounds like this girl, since she has been having a lot of troubles this week, is trying to move on from those troubles. Nobody can move on in a week but they do appreciate when someone is actually there for them. Just because someone is a master at hiding feelings doesn't mean they wouldn't tell you if they were uncomfortable.

That's just my opinion though...

pearldrums287 August 23 2004, 21:28:23 UTC

hey...thanks for ur help. yea ur right...she prbly does need some time to move on from her troubles. i really hope tho that i do get a chance to be her bf...because i want to be with her more than anyone i can think of. shes a really great person...i think u would like her..haha. thanx.

sunset_ruby August 24 2004, 03:39:17 UTC

I think that part's been made clear. I think I'd like her, too. She seems mighty kickass.

jessy_ann August 23 2004, 01:32:08 UTC

Well it is good to see that you are just as confused about girls as we are about guys... hehe the wonderful world of girls and guys.. you think with all of todays modern technology they would have come up with some kind of device so that we knew what everyone of the opposite sex was thinking... and then i guess you would be be in this predicamond...

I think you should just ride things out with this girl, let things build up slowly - as they obviously all ready are. There is no need to rush things... for you would be just as happy today as you would be tomorrow.

Unless you want to be the daring type.. in that case you could just kiss her and see her reaction - as this would be pretty clear cut, but may not be the best option in your situation....

If by some chance she reads your livejournal, then she may pick up on the fact that you are talking about her.. and in that case the next move is up to her!

pearldrums287 August 23 2004, 21:34:03 UTC

hey thanx for ur help also. im gonna get to all these comments hopefully..haha. yea actually she did read this entry..and we talked about it. she just broke up with her bf..so she needs some time to move on from that. things r really good between her and i tho.....i think at least. i think things should just build up slow...bc thats how i think she does best. if i was daring...that would just freak her out...and prbly wouldnt be good since she already told me that she needs time. thanx.

livinghell69823 August 23 2004, 01:36:56 UTC

Hey I don't know you nor do you know me but I might be able to give you a little advise with you're problem. . . OK for one there is not much you can do when people hide there feelings besides try to talk to them about it, you know? I know it might be strange to ask certain things straight out, but she might be wanting to tell you things but doesn't know how to put them into words. She sounds like she is a shy person, but then again I don't know her, well I hope this is at least a little help. Tell me if it does or doesn't. Later & good luck

moshiicake August 23 2004, 01:55:10 UTC

I don't know you, and you don't know me. This might seem a little harsh, but... just *ask* someone. IF you wnt a relationship with this girl you've gotta show early on that you're willing to be honest with her. Just by asking questions (not the Spanish Inquisition though, huh?) you can find out a lot of things, and she'll ask questions back, and then sooner'n you'd know it thing's'll be happening. Good luck!

mildrid_22326 August 23 2004, 02:14:15 UTC

hey
we dont know eachother but i saw ur journel entry randomly and thought i would say somethin.
i kind of have the same problem but we wont get into it.
its hard when the person naturally doesnt show feelings well. its nice of u to help her like u said u have been tryin. ppl need that and more should try to help. i know it may b hard but ask her some night if there is something bigger u can help her wit, or if there has ever been i time u made her feel bad. but let her know u arent puttin her on the spot. that could make things hard.
best of luck for u two :) t/l rach