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[peccavo]

I'm hurting again today. I know I shouldn't just post when I'm hurt, but it's easier to process here. My brother is more like me than he knows... emotionally, we're strangely similar, although he's always been more, let's say "vocal" about it, and I've always hid my feelings as much as has been feasible.... This is where the Italian dynamic comes

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[thespian15]

You mean to tell me you honestly believe that the perfect dress is going to lead to a lifetime of marital bliss (provided the groom doesn't see it), but that therapy won't?!?
That makes so much sense. :o
Try not to let your brother's worries get to you. Apples and Oranges, so to speak. :)
HUGS, Jon

[hoobird]

In any relationship, there's always going to be some uncertainty. The beginning of The Great Adventure that is "Marriage" is full of it. A few sessions of therapy - be it "professional", or just talking with someone who's been through the experience themselves - can be very beneficial. You have people on your side - you will get through this. Finding some healthy distractions can help with feelings of being overwhelmed.