I don't want to be mad and I am not going to be mad. I've let go of my image and realized it's rediculous to think everyone is going to do exactly what I think they should do. Just becuase I do, doesn't mean other people do. I'm not going to waste my time being hurt and angry, when I can be happy about many other things...it's simply not worth the
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One thing that you might want to think about is that the expectations that you have of people aren't necessarily a bad thing. It is alright to expect certain things from certain people, the trick is to not be upset when they don't meet those expectations. Unfortunately this is easier said than done because sometimes other people will do something that is completely stupid or insensitive and feel no real remorse afterwards. In this case I think it is ok to be pissed off because there is a point where a person no longer violates just your expectations but they violate normal human decency. I don't think that this latter case applies when it comes to missing a birthday salutation though. Otherwise be mad just don't stay mad.
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