so i dont know how to treat people and that only seems to be people who want more than what they get from me. so i have come to a decision
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if i cause problems i wish i would have known. i dont think thats how it is and dont understand why someone would atempt to hurt anyone by saying it. but whatever the case we are there for eachother and thats that. if people have a problem with that they may want to take a look at why they came to this conclusion....you know who you are and why you did and unfortuatly for you it will have a worse outcome..distance might be a good thing because if they are willing to say certain things to another then maybe they shouldnt talk at all. i always incouraged talking before but not if this is the way it is and how it leaves the person feeling. wtf
just an opposing commentgive_em_fitzMay 2 2006, 18:33:34 UTC
first of all, this is all blown way out of proportion and none of this needs to be taken nearly as seriously as it is. second of all, the only thing that was implied is that you have MANY PEOPLE who care a lot about you and want your time. you're so fortunate that you have these kinds of friends. you just need to learn how to manage your time and spend time with everyone, not just one person, even though best friends are SPACTACULAR! lastly, distance, in this case, probably wouldn't even be close to good. it would make the problem worse, and hopefully that isn't what you're trying to do. please take the time and resolve this now before things get worse and you lose a good friend who just wants to be involved in your life. one extra thing, everyone's different and they all deserve different attention and such. you can't treat everyone the same way because we all have different reactions and different past experiences that influence who we are and as friends we expect that person to treat us with courtesy EVEN IF we make biig mistakes.
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