i fully support the moving out dealy--esp since you seem to be dealing as the middle man in alot of family arguements...if you remove yourself from the situation, you can help, but you won't feel trapped. and it forces people to fix their own problems, to a certain extent, as well.
so glad you updated...makes me wanna update too. i wish i didn't live so far from sac--grats on sac state <333
I'm glad there is a family truce right now (however uneasy). I'll also second Lianne's support of you moving out. If you can tell me in advance which weekend you're going to move, I can come up and help if you'd like/offer a truck with which to transport things. <3~
I third Lianne's suggestion. I know you love your family, but it seems to me that they dump a lot on you (and this isn't new either--it dates back at least until high school). It really shouldn't be your responsibility to fix everything for them, particularly as you had nothing to do with the creation of the situations they're in. Like Lianne said, moving out will let you be close enough to offer support, but far enough that you aren't constantly in the middle of things.
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so glad you updated...makes me wanna update too. i wish i didn't live so far from sac--grats on sac state <333
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