my ignorant parents

[penngradwannabe]

so my mother yells and calls me to her and says : "so, do you have any sexual relationship with a gay?" 'A GAY'? see how fuckin ignorant they r. then my dad compared homosexuality to drug addiction and sex addiction. i was apalled at their ignorance level. they dont know shit. so yeh, there was no point educating them. so my dad says that i mst get

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Well i guess at least ur not a liar

[anonymous]

man it takes a lot of guts as a indian to do that. i wished u were straight, and i hope that u somehow magically turn straight. i kno u dont care bout morals, and religion or nethin like that. the exact reason y im sendin my kids to christian school. lol. yea but thanks for not hittin on me. lol. cauz u kno our friendship would have ended rite there n then. lol. but yea good luck in USP. em and sorry but u kno imma support ur parents and u kno y. 1 im indian 2 im christian. dont hate me for that though. lol.

Re: Well i guess at least ur not a liar

[penngradwannabe]

awww nilesh, i dont hate u. and i wud never hit on u for 2 reasons a)i never hit on frends. b)u r indian, and i am largely attracted to white guys, no offense to anyone.
and i understand. for a guy as christian as u to be such a good frend is a big deal. lol. and if u send ur kids to christian academy, and they r destined to be gay, u wud just make their life shitload harder than it already wud be with all those gospels and dont eat shrimp instructions and crap.
but thanks anyway, i appreciate it

[penngradwannabe]

thanks :)

Kudos!

[flipservice]

Kudos to you for coming out to them. I am still working on how the hell I am going to tell my dad. I think he will completely cut me off and that is why I have to wait until I am done with school. My mother and sister know and they took it surprisingly sell. My dad also pathologizes homosexuality and it makes me insane. I know that once I come out to him he will think I need therapy.
Parents are funny people. Alot of the time they are preoccupied with things that go on around them more so than they should, and they miss out on what is more important, such as who their children really are. I think you should try an articulate to them that you don't want to cheat on someone that believes you supposedly are attracted to them and just use them for a baby-making machine. Tell them that you don't want to ruin someone elses life like that. Maybe eventually they will value you for that.

Good luck with everything!

[anonymous]

first thing i want to state is..damn homie u got guts!! i really give u props for shiit like this.. especailly for indian rents! wow .. u got mad balls .. im happy that ur not pestimistic n all .. lookin at the optimistic side..ur rents didnt kick u outt or slapp u or beat u or anything of that nature and atleast they took the time to listen to what u said.. so its not all that bad.. and who knows .. u mite turn striaght ( though i highly doubt it and not that you want to) as far as religion goes.. im hindu .. i dont believin in what ur doing in rite nor wrong.. im not the one to judge. . and what ur relgion mite be ( i no ur hindu but ppl say alot of things not like they follow it entirely) .. i respect that .. and u

[penngradwannabe]

aww, thank you. yeh, well, technically, hinduism doesnt condemn homosexuality. it prolly approved of it in earlier eras, but now, it doesnt say anything about homosexuality. i think people might be against it, because like i said in my entry, people do get married fuck and have kids and all, and its like this strong required trend that is set that people dont dare challenge unless they are ready to face strong critisicm and gossip themselves.
anyways, thanks

wow man

[anonymous]

oh man shiven tu taan chake ditay phatay! like everyone is sayin u deff. got guts man n i give u props for that... u will get far in life wid that kind of attitude.(i bet u dont need me to tell u that) the responce u got from ur rentz was pretty abvouse n i bet u were prepaired. n i believe u handle it very nice. man i wish i knew how to read hindi buh u gota tell me wat that says! buh i gota say wat u did was right as long as u believe in it, n im glad to know sumone wid that much courage! n u know if u eva gota talk dis loud punjabi chick is always gonna be there ok?

Re: wow man

[penngradwannabe]

awww, thanks shilpi. thats so sweet of u. thanks for the support. and yeh i hope i get far in life