What do you do...

[perspicacious42]

When someone who crappily cut you out of their life suddenly sees you and says "hi" like it's a normal day

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...always the deepest.

[dace]

I hope I make the cut. But if I end up dying or something before the cut is made... name a cat after me, okay?

Re: ...always the deepest.

[perspicacious42]

fo sho

also... if I do enough drugs... maybe I'll just keep dreaming about you anyway. I hope you don't act like an asshole in my dreams. It's impolite.

asshole in your dreams

[dace]

when have I ever!?

[hyarrostar]

What's the difference between not "keeping up" and ignoring someone?

[perspicacious42]

Mutual detachment versus ignoring multiple attempts at contact.

[perspicacious42]

Especially if the person straight out brings it up. "Hey, what's going on here... I've contacted you several times and it feels like you're totally ignoring me." If it gets to that point, and you still don't respond... you just might be ignoring the person... just maybe.

[hyarrostar]

So, what's going on here?

[perspicacious42]

I just found a February email? But I think it was sent today. I'm going to respond to that, since this thread seems to be going in circles.

But for the journal, a process comment. Interesting. Is it karma? Or maybe I just needed a new perspective. What does it feel like to have wronged someone regardless of the intentions, and then get stuck at that place where I don't know if/how it can ever be righted.

No more excuses, C, this was my bad, I'm going to email you and try to rectify it. You're right, regardless of any conditions, if I had really wanted to keep things going, I could've contacted you. You have every right to be pissed. I wasn't a good friend to you, or even a so-so one. And you tried to be one to me.