Blind Date and blotchy hair

[petapepy]

First post of the year! I have two weeks of break left before I am back at work. For the first time I am actually dreading going back to work. Mainly because of all the crap that happened at the end of last year that is still yet to be resolved. Also I am not looking forwards to working with that horrible colleague of mine who makes my life a

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[hungry_worm]

Grrrrrrrrr, LJ always craps out on me, I wonder if it has to do with their blocking of some ISPs. :-( Anyway, here's the comment I had typed before.

[frolic_horror]

I'd try meeting him at least once more because you said he was a nice guy even if you didn't think you have things in common.

Good luck whatever you decide! :)

[trixie_chick]

sorry that you are dreading going to work. =/ that is a Not Fun way to feel. *hugs!!*

re: everyone must want to be married!!! .... sighs. it's annoying, isn't it? people are so damned intrusive, like something so important is something you'd want to solicit random opinions on. PLUS... what an archaic notion, anyway!! we don't live in a world anymore where people die when they are 30 or whatnot, so there's no reason at all for everyyyyyybody to feel pressured to pair off and reproduce. it should be a decision. sheesh.

as far as this guy goes... it really sounds to me like he is looking for something completely different than you are, so before you meet him again (if ever), i agree that you absolutely must make it clear that you're not interested in a relationship at this time.

eep, hair dying not working as hoped... always so frustrating. i know forking over the money is a pain, but sometimes, that's the only option, except waiting for it to grow out. =X

[velessa]

Good for you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being perfectly happy without forcing yourself into the standard life-script of marriage+children!

[mage424]

Usually it's the parents pushing you to marry not a friend...this friend must really want to see you settled. As to breaking it to him maybe you should let your friend know you're not interested so she can hint to him you'll rather see him as a friend. If you don't want to do that you can always come straight out on your next meeting that you don't think as a couple you and him click but would like to hang with him as a friend.