#3 Flirting Tip of “The-Yet-To-Be-Determined-Time-Period”

[peterbeerslayer]

Someone who has been to all of my ConSociology workshops observed, ”You keep saying 'lose the On the Hunt’, and ‘Don’t be on the Prowl’, and ‘Be free of desire when flirting’... you said that you can do this because the romance will take care of itself but you didn’t explain how that happens. How does it happen if we don’t put any time or energy

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[auroraceleste]

”You keep saying 'lose the On the Hunt’, and ‘Don’t be on the Prowl’, and ‘Be free of desire when flirting’... you said that you can do this because the romance will take care of itself but you didn’t explain how that happens. How does it happen if we don’t put any time or energy or even thought into it?“

Because a woman is not a trophy, an object, or small game. When you start thinking of something as a contest to be won or a process to trudge through you loose the fact that there is another PERSON involved and that woman should be respected for herself, not just calculated into a set of variables. All people, not just women, like being treated like individuals and respected for their differences. When you're "playing a game" you loose sight of that.

[lil_monkey22]

I completely agree with you that once you turn the flirting into an "on the hunt" without it being mutual it becomes just plain creepy. The WORST flirting experience I have ever had was with a guy in Philly who thought he was Rocky (which surprisingly seems to happen to men in Philly) and kept calling me "baby"

Needless to say that flirting did not last long, and I have successfully avoided him ever since.