To me, the shoving out of the room seemed to be to ensure no mixed messages would play out in front of the kid. Otherwise you'd have you on one hand giving her a spanking and then her cuddling her. Not sure if that was the motivation, but that was what I envisioned and I agreed.
And the fact that more advise was being given is I think mainly because just cause a method works 1 night, does not mean it will continue to work.
It's hard for anyone to envision exactly how the situation played out 'cause we weren't there, so the best we can do is try to help in a way we actually can, which is applying our own experiences to what happened.
Either way, best of luck with whatever you decide to do! I'm sure you'll figure out the best way of handling the situation :)
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And the fact that more advise was being given is I think mainly because just cause a method works 1 night, does not mean it will continue to work.
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It's hard for anyone to envision exactly how the situation played out 'cause we weren't there, so the best we can do is try to help in a way we actually can, which is applying our own experiences to what happened.
Either way, best of luck with whatever you decide to do! I'm sure you'll figure out the best way of handling the situation :)
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