Re: an academic questionpetongOctober 27 2004, 13:32:36 UTC
Actually, that "two for two" quote was not refering to Lukas. Cause, yeah, he's not exactly straight. The guys I was talking about most definitely identify as straight. I don't think that an isolated incident of drunken kissing, or a single blowjob and a finger in the ass makes them any less straight. By this I mean that I don't think they harbor any secret desire to be with men or to date them. But then, I really think that labels like straight gay bi aren't really useful, because, as you can see, it's more complicated than that. And to answer your question, if those particular guys were actually gay, I would still have the hots for them.
Re: an academic questionjoe_killianOctober 28 2004, 11:59:02 UTC
I guess that makes sense. Some heterosexual women are attracted to more "masculine" guys, others to more "feminine" guys - so why not gay guys, as well?
Sounds like you're saying you're not necessarily attracted to the "straight-ness" but the masculinity of "straight" guys. Fair enough.
Gretchen disagrees with my assesment of heterosexual men as not intersted in "turning" lesbians. My aunt, who helped raise me and who I love like a mother, is a lesbian - so I've never quite understood the lesbian sexual fixation myself - but I've always assumed it was "More girls? Yes, please" rather than "ah...I am breaking taboos and am so attractive that I am making this person question/deviate from their sexuality."
Re: an academic questionfey_seraphDecember 12 2004, 23:15:37 UTC
hm.... i get off on "turning" "straight' boys. maybe its an ego thing. but it can be hotter for a straight guy to want you than a gay one.... although often less practical.
someone once said that being gay is not about sexual action purely but about actual romantic/relationship interests in men. i dont know if i necessarily agree, but its a good thought. -brandon
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Sounds like you're saying you're not necessarily attracted to the "straight-ness" but the masculinity of "straight" guys. Fair enough.
Gretchen disagrees with my assesment of heterosexual men as not intersted in "turning" lesbians. My aunt, who helped raise me and who I love like a mother, is a lesbian - so I've never quite understood the lesbian sexual fixation myself - but I've always assumed it was "More girls? Yes, please" rather than "ah...I am breaking taboos and am so attractive that I am making this person question/deviate from their sexuality."
But I could be wrong.
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maybe its an ego thing.
but it can be hotter for a straight guy to want you than a gay one.... although often less practical.
someone once said that being gay is not about sexual action purely but about actual romantic/relationship interests in men. i dont know if i necessarily agree, but its a good thought.
-brandon
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