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[pggmilltn]

Upfront disclosure. This is a downer of a post. There are things I want to get off my chest that might not happen otherwise. A few IRL friends were wondering what I’d have to say in a blog and this is the closest entry I can muster. Advice, armchair psychology, and armchair psychiatry are anticipated and welcome. Heck, I’ll emotionally detach

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[mcfnord]

you don't know the future. my first years out of college were dreadful. and that appraisal that you're a loser: i've met guys who are huge losers, which mostly boils down to them being evil jerks. in no way are you an evil jerk so you are clearly not qualified to occupy the loserist loser category. mike tyson used to rob people for a living. then a trainer took him in and started telling him he was the greatest. he complimented him constantly, because he knew mike had a low image of himself, and that mental construct was getting in the way of success. it's kind of wierd how just our mental self-image can determine what we try and how we do. i think you know this, because you've written about it many times. i'm just saying mike tyson became the heavyweight champion of the world, and when he was starting out, he really believed that he was worthless. i know realizing "it's all in my mind" doesn't solve the problem by itself. i also know a lady who if someone says something negative and insulting about themselves around her, she will

[pggmilltn]

Yay! I've got good news to post!

[alwaysinmyheart]

what is your facebook name paul? would like to keep up with you again...just read your post and ive neglected you so bad and im so sorry :(

[pggmilltn]

I'm sorry, I'd lost track of LJ. How are you?