Hope you had the time of your life

[phantomofrent]

I am ADDICTED to the "Step Up 2: The Streets" Soundtrack. What great work out music. LOL!!! And I saw a clip of the dance at the end in the rain and it looks AMAZING

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[phantomofrent]

I am not COMPLETELY accepting of it because I am still mad as hell every time I think of her with another guy. But, what is done is done. I have forgiven her and hopes that she comes to peace with her personal demons.

[phantomofrent]

Well, thanks for the offer but it's okay. LOL!

[somelikeitthom]

i have to agree with imperial on that, man. i am excited to hear that you are moving on, which is stronger and bolder than i think i would be. but do not ever accept that someone else's sin is blameless, or even your fault. i know you still deeply care for her, but as your friend and brother in Christ, i must say this: sin is sin, no matter how much we love the person who committed it.

adversely, we also are not supposed to hold it over someone's head, either. i guess all i'm saying is that while you moving on and forgiving, do not feel like you have to accept or be to blame.

love you, brother.

[phantomofrent]

Well after months of suicidal thoughts (and one slight try) I have come to the realization that we can not change the past. All we can do is forgive and move on. I know I was a part of her cheating, so I really am a little to blame, but it was an extreme thing she did to become free of me. Oh well. Like I said, what is done is done. As I stated with imperial, I am not accepting of it . . . FAR from it. But, she has to lead her own life . . . a life she chose to lead without me. And I hope she finds true happiness and peace because I want nothing but the best for her.

[somelikeitthom]

while i haven't been through the situation you are in, i do know what it's like to be in those dark places. if you ever need a friend, let me know, brother.

[phantomofrent]

Thanks man *HUGS*