Well my grandpa fell and hit his head on this table that he has in his bedroom and he couldnt get up and my grandma is so skinny that there is no way in hell that she could lift him.. and so she called her friend and they both tried so her friend suggested that they call 911 not only because hes in his 70's and he hit his head but because he could have not gotten up. so they took him to the hospital and he has a urinary tract infection.. but he doesnt have a bladder because he had cancer. so he has a bag and when you empty it, it smells so bad that it could make you barf so yeah and they found a " shadow " of somethign on the x-ray.. and i hope its not cancer.. and there is also something wrong with his kidneys.. and i hope that he is ok... and my " love life" if you can even call it that is basically shot to hell.. i mean i dont really know what to do anymore or say to her.. i'm thinking about giving up . i know i have said it alot and things change daily.. i need advice.. straight up because im so confused.. i dont know what to do... please help me