1. Yes. I thought this guy from Michigan and I were going to end up together no matter what. NO MATTER WHAT. I almost forced him to be part of my life...I even dated one of his roommates for awhile (not the reason I dated that guy, but yeah, it was nice to see the one I thought I'd eventually be with anyways). I never thought I'd feel the kind of attachment that I felt to him. Ever. I was wrong.
2. Yes. I've met the person I'm going to marry. Most definitely. But let me tell you Shawn, the relationship is work sometimes, but it's not suffering. Make sure you know the difference between the two...
Thanks for the advice Laura, and I totally agree with your last statement. I think it's just that I prove to myself that this is really the way it is going to happen just because of the fact that I have dated and "seen" people since I first met her. I still have the random crushes, but in the end, none of them work out and I wind up thinking about all the same things again, those same things being her. We'll see. It's not like it's something I am freaking out about. I have accepted the fact that this is the way it's gotta be for a while. I just wrote this journal to basically see if people related and what they had to say. Thanks again Laura. I miss you!
I definately understand both of the questions. It's hard to sit back and wait for her to make all of the wrong moves to realize the right ones, i've been there. It's important that you are letting her make mistakes and figuring out what she TRULY wants. By finding out what she TRULY wants you will know that when you two do get together, that it is for real.
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2. Yes. I've met the person I'm going to marry. Most definitely. But let me tell you Shawn, the relationship is work sometimes, but it's not suffering. Make sure you know the difference between the two...
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