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i know it's fucked up an stupid that all my entries end up being about dudes. will work on it.
so, this is sort of coming out of left field but i've just been through yet another disappointing interaction with a man (you know, when you're sure something's going somewhere but then it just fizzles before it even begins) and i'm just wondering, when you first started dating jesse or in that pre-dating period i suppose: what was it you did? really, is there some *thing* women know to do or not do, some lesson learned after years of heartbreak and mis-firing that i have yet to glean. it's probably nothing. it's probably just, you know, when two people are right for each other or in the right place in their lives or whatever it just works. but, on the off-chance that there is something, some trick of the trade, some hard-fought intuition (when to pull back, when to come on strong, etc. etc.) ... i'd really love to hear it.
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I need to take a break. I'm not pissed or anything dramatic like that but I just need to take some time away from you. Hence the de-friending, please try not to take it personally. Of course, being the spaz that I am, I accidently pressed some button friend-requesting you right after de-friending -- please don't accept my friend request. Don't call or write. I'm thinking a couple of weeks should do it, maybe a month? Will pray about the situation in the meantime for sure.
Love,
Malek
PS I don't think it will be weird at Impact but let's keep it casual and try not to interact too much.
so, this is sort of coming out of left field but i've just been through yet another disappointing interaction with a man (you know, when you're sure something's going somewhere but then it just fizzles before it even begins) and i'm just wondering, when you first started dating jesse or in that pre-dating period i suppose: what was it you did? really, is there some *thing* women know to do or not do, some lesson learned after years of heartbreak and mis-firing that i have yet to glean. it's probably nothing. it's probably just, you know, when two people are right for each other or in the right place in their lives or whatever it just works. but, on the off-chance that there is something, some trick of the trade, some hard-fought intuition (when to pull back, when to come on strong, etc. etc.) ... i'd really love to hear it.
was a response to
I need to take a break. I'm not pissed or anything dramatic like that but I just need to take some time away from you. Hence the de-friending, please try not to take it personally. Of course, being the spaz that I am, I accidently pressed some button friend-requesting you right after de-friending -- please don't accept my friend request. Don't call or write. I'm thinking a couple of weeks should do it, maybe a month? Will pray about the situation in the meantime for sure.
Love,
Malek
PS I don't think it will be weird at Impact but let's keep it casual and try not to interact too much.