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phildow

Pubescent Again?

Aug 17, 2004 00:29

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yammerskooner August 17 2004, 01:50:22 UTC

definitely you need to find yourself and older, more experienced woman. i'm sure one will be happy to cooperate with you.

phildow August 17 2004, 11:53:04 UTC

Couldn't agree more.

whimsie August 17 2004, 04:15:27 UTC

some kind of male disease? lol, i don't mean to laugh at your expense.. it's just, well... you poor dear!

phildow August 17 2004, 11:50:42 UTC

I had feared the worst, but I didn't think it could be true! Comfort my sobbing in your prayers... ;)

whimsie August 17 2004, 17:29:49 UTC

hahaha, you'll be fine...

just, uhm, yeah.. i don't know. :P

Playing Peeping Tom anonymous August 19 2004, 17:22:36 UTC

There is little more in the world that is more intriguing that getting to hear the inner most, private thoughts of those that you don't really know all that well. I'll keep this entry in mind if we meet for lunch or coffee, Phil.
Jennifer Waxman

Re: Playing Peeping Tom phildow August 20 2004, 00:21:07 UTC

Hmmm... I'm going to get into trouble here!

This one was a tough one to write. If this were an anonymous blog, no problem, but people I know read this thing. Oh well. I figure I'm talking about stuff that most people already know about in general. Nothing new here. The only thing new is that it's coming from me. Unless of course whimsie was right and it is just me! Nooooooooo!!

Re: Playing Peeping Tom whimsie August 22 2004, 12:05:46 UTC

lol! it's just you, really, it is. ;)

don't worry, we all have these thoughts unless of course we is a monk. :P

although, i find that i more long for cuddles and hand holding... i've always been the affectionate type though, not that you aren't!

Re: Playing Peeping Tom phildow August 22 2004, 16:05:44 UTC

My problem is that I want a balance between the affection and the sex. Well, that's not the whole of it. More that I really want the sex but simultaneously don't want sex without the affection. I'd like a person I can be close to, a girlfriend I guess, not a one-night stand or fuck buddy. But then, I really, really need some sex--so do I go for the one-night stand/buddy? So far not yet, but if I were actually put in a situation where I had to make the choice, I'm not sure what I would do.

Relationships are more than sex, and I want want a relationship. But I want sex too. Do I want sex bad enough to forgo the relationship? Maybe, but I know I would eventually feel empty about it. Sex can satisfy a need, but it doesn't help much with the longing for another person.

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Trouble phildow August 20 2004, 01:19:51 UTC

Whoops, already caused a problem with this one! Gotta watch out for those misunderstandings. I can see the benefit of running an anonymous blog or friends only blog now. Anonymous is too late though. I'm not going to start a new blog. Friends only I'm against out of principle. Maybe useful, but seems a little silly to me.

Anyway, could have created a potentially awkward situation, but I don't think that'll be the case. As much as I love the awkward moment--distance yourself and take a look at it next time you're there, a beautiful thing really--I'm a pretty easy-going guy and and don't get too wound up about things. We'll be cool.

Heheh, huge smile though. Makes me happy.