Poly? Or monogamous?

[phoenixdufeu]

I’ve often wondering if I’m polyamorous, or monogamous. I’ve been in both relationships, and obviously both have had their faults, because I’ve been single for some time now, with a few very brief blips on the radar. I’ve read books on polyamorous relationships, debated the pros and cons, tested a few out, and have at one time or another, decided

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[anonymous]

I'm poly. But I love whenever I have issues or want to put up a boundary or think about what those might be in _this_ relationship, people ask me, "oh, have you gone mono?"

Like there's only One True Way to do this.

[emilytbm]

If you are capable of loving and committing to more than one person at a time, then yes, you're poly!