what does he think of all this? and where did she hear this about doms not loving/respecting their subs? i've been to a lot of websites about this, and i've not yet found one that even hints at that.
everyone is nice when they're "trying to get into heaven," so to speak.
No matter what the "context" of a relationship between two people, it is still only between the two that are in the relationship. If you are happy and fulfilled, then a true friend would share in your happiness, not judge you and use it against you. Everyone's needs are unique and therefore so are their ways of obtaining satisfaction. If what pleases you pleases him, then it's a successful relationship in my opinion.
Re: Sanely put. Thank you.donnathedeadOctober 9 2003, 14:29:20 UTC
Sure it could. Jealousy is often the reason that people cannot be happy for others. Misery loves company, you know...maybe her insecurity about her friendship with you is the reason she's trying to make you feel insecure in your realtionship with Strange. Then again, I know nothing at all about this person. *shrugs*
Good luck straightening everything out, hopefully she'll come to her senses someday!
You prolly already know this but i still wanted to respondhis_angelOctober 9 2003, 14:54:08 UTC
A person prone to this desires to be loved by the one they dominate, but never can they love the submissive because they do not respect them.
Bull *cough* shit! i have no doubts of Master's love or respect for me. i would think that IF someone does feel this way, then they are not "worthy" of the "title" of "Dominant" muchless "Master."
What I don't understand is how you can pledge love to a man that by his action (and his own statement to me) does not love you.And *when* did he supposedly make this statement to her? Things change. i recall my best friend and i having a conversation where she told me that Master told her that He'd never collar me. Their conversation had to do with the fact He already had someone collared to Him. And their agreement was He'd not collar someone else as long as she wore His collar. The longer we've been together the more my feelings and the more His grew. And He DID indeed eventually collar me
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what utter & total crap...a dom can definitely love his/her sub...someone seems confused here....
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I'm sorry you lost a friend. :-(
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everyone is nice when they're "trying to get into heaven," so to speak.
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Good luck straightening everything out, hopefully she'll come to her senses someday!
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Bull *cough* shit! i have no doubts of Master's love or respect for me. i would think that IF someone does feel this way, then they are not "worthy" of the "title" of "Dominant" muchless "Master."
What I don't understand is how you can pledge love to a man that by his action (and his own statement to me) does not love you.And *when* did he supposedly make this statement to her? Things change. i recall my best friend and i having a conversation where she told me that Master told her that He'd never collar me. Their conversation had to do with the fact He already had someone collared to Him. And their agreement was He'd not collar someone else as long as she wore His collar. The longer we've been together the more my feelings and the more His grew. And He DID indeed eventually collar me ( ... )
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i figured as much but didn't want to assume. At least my feeling was right in that respect.
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