Musings on giving and receiving

Apr 07, 2007 07:34


As a society, we so often seem to have lost the concept of being graceful receivers of gifts ( Read more... )

esoterica, musings

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cunningminx April 7 2007, 17:19:49 UTC
Love the new icon, BTW!

And yes, thanks for saying this. My family is notoriously bad at both gift-giving and receiving, so you can never expect a graceful receipt fo a gift. I've had to work on that, and my response still isn't as gracious as it should be. But truly, saying "thank you" shouldn't be that hard.

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naamah_darling April 7 2007, 20:11:25 UTC
Very well said. I'm discovering (rediscovering) the pleasure of giving gifts.

For a long time it was hard for me to receive gifts without guilt or pain, because we were so poor I could never afford to give them anything in return. I'm very glad those days are past.

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sylvarthorne October 25 2007, 19:33:39 UTC
I was absolutely thrilled when I'd rediscovered the joy in gifting last year - all too often, it IS seen very much as a requirement and a burden in our society, and giving gifts should never, ever be done in that light. It brings grief instead of joy.

I *adore* the concept of paying it forward, and I do consciously do seemingly small things in the hopes that someday, that small bit of goodwill I created will go on to do bigger things for someone else.

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phoenixprime October 26 2007, 16:08:56 UTC
Well - someone's been running backwards through LJ... :-)

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sylvarthorne October 27 2007, 03:40:34 UTC
LOL! Oh man, so I did. Totally unintentional; I think I wasn't logged in at the time and for some reason thought this was a new entry - I *thought* it was familiar. Silly me :)

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iamcyber March 17 2008, 06:31:13 UTC
Thank you for writing this. Maybe it was fate that I stumbled across this now ( ... )

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phoenixprime March 17 2008, 11:57:24 UTC
You're welcome!

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