You dare me?beth_ersSeptember 11 2003, 05:14:42 UTC
Heh. That "heh" was not a laugh at you. It was a "heh" of wonderment cuz it seems like around 75% of the guys I "meet" lately are into BDSM or think they are, one of the two. (I use the term "think" because a few of them have never carried their relationships as far as you have in exploration.) I read this and went mentally, "Another one." I don't mean this post in a nasty way, far from. I'm the one who feels left out. *grin* Anyhow, why should you lose friends over this? To each their own. It's like saying to someone, "Goddammit, you really should like chocolate ice cream" when that person just prefers and *cough, cough* *is* vanilla.
Actually there's nothing stopping me. My current Girlfriend isn't into it. But... I don't know truthfully how long this relationship will last. Don't ask why, just accept it ::chuckles::
And I don't know why someone would judge someones lifestyle. Its very frustrating, anyone who judges opens themselves to be judged. It really bothers me that people can "decide" on something without knowing the first thing about it.
I mean, how many of you can tell me truthfully, details about a TRUE Dom/sub relationship. Not a fair-weather Dom who only is a Dom in bed, or who is hyper sexual with their Dom nature. A true Dom, Masters their sub psychologically. If you have to discipline your sub physically (Not in the name of foreplay *egrin*) than you are not a successful Master.
I know, if I had a sub. If I was disappointed and expressed that disappointment. THAT would be punishment beyond words. That means that as a sub, you FAILED your Master. That is the worst thing in the world.
okay well i just read what you wrote. not sure ifi want to comment. does not surprise me in the least to hear something like that from you. uh i dont think if someone i cared about said that that i would dis own them or have our relationship suffer. i dont hink i totally agree with you but some people NEED that. need the control/be controled. so....... i'm gonna stop there but good luck with all that
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Okay now I really can't say anything about this one or I'm seriously a Hypocrite. ::grins:: So again, whats stopping you?
Heehee,
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And I don't know why someone would judge someones lifestyle. Its very frustrating, anyone who judges opens themselves to be judged. It really bothers me that people can "decide" on something without knowing the first thing about it.
I mean, how many of you can tell me truthfully, details about a TRUE Dom/sub relationship. Not a fair-weather Dom who only is a Dom in bed, or who is hyper sexual with their Dom nature. A true Dom, Masters their sub psychologically. If you have to discipline your sub physically (Not in the name of foreplay *egrin*) than you are not a successful Master.
I know, if I had a sub. If I was disappointed and expressed that disappointment. THAT would be punishment beyond words. That means that as a sub, you FAILED your Master. That is the worst thing in the world.
::shrugs::
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