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[phonographgirl]

To paraphrase Ariel Truax (Ann-Margret) in "Grumpy Old Men", the things we regret the most are the risks that we don't take

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[dragons_f_wolf]

You know it's not true. So do a lot of other people. That's what matters. And I'm sending you Clerks 2 so when you need a good laugh you can pop it in. :p

[luvlyssa]

Great Post.... exactly what I needed to hear. *hugs* thanks

[alison_katie]

For the first time in my life, I stepped out of my comfort zone and took the necessary steps to get out of a very unhealthy situation

THAT in ITSELF, can be the hardest thing anyone could EVER hope to do.

You are one of the strongest and most confident people I know.

[freeko]

Sometimes when we give advice. We are speaking from our personal experiences. Because I know if I love someone? I don't want them to make the same mistakes I made. It hurts when someone we love ends up fucking up royally. I mean I know from personal experience in working with ex-lover on a project. That I follow the Buckingham-Nicks rule. That rule is a reference to Stevie and Lindsey who broke up while recording Rumours and continued to stay in the band through an acrimonius spilt. A similar thing happened to me and it was hell. I was put in a situation where if I left the project I would have been branded as leaving because I could not stand the end of a sexual affair. So I stayed, grinned and beared it. Never again!

[sweetmsbehavin]

you have done so well with everything since i have known you(online) ofcourse but i think you ahve came a long way , and you are happy and it shows , you deserve to be happy and i give you alot of credit cause you did something slot of people would notahve even tryed by stepping out of that comfort zone and having done that myself a few years ago , i know how you feel and i think it is great you did ...hugs