So, as of late, I've been trying to figure out how to talk to my parents about transitioning. Part of me wants to just sit them down or take them out to dinner and tell them that I want to go on testosterone. I'm really scared to tell them because ever since I came out to them, they haven't really made an effort to acknowledge the fact that I'm a
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Miss you, fancy-lad!
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as far as telling family, you have to weigh the pros and cons. ultimately your happiness and comfort is key. if you're ok with some people finding out on their own w/o you telling them (families talk, you may not have to tell everyone yourself), great. if you feel it necessary to tell the important people in your life, go for it. whenever someone finds out, you risk a bad reaction. in my experience, however, the folks who are closest to you will love you regardless.
good luck! we have to hang out before my surgery. i'm always in the kent area. lilo and finch have my number.
- ted
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Well, that's a relief (about the acne) because I have seen some guys have really really bad acne, and I'm too fancy (read:gay) to get acne like that!! lolz. I mean, I want to tell my grandparents, but at the same time, I mean, when/if I go on T, they'll know something is up when I eventually start growing facial hair, and my voice drops and whatnot. I mean, really? they are friends with me on facebook as Trae, so how wouldn't they know?! well, yeah. anyways....we do need to hang out! whenever Finch finally answers her phone, I'll get it from her.
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