*sigh*

[pianorock1111]

"May angels lead you in
Hear you me, my friend"so my grandfather is gone. for good. its one of those things where i just feel numb to the whole thing. honestly i havent talked to him or seen him in about 2 years. he just got really old and his alzheimers was just too bad. it wasnt worth it. but now that hes gone? now its worth it. i would

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[pinksprinkels]

*hugs*
his birthdate is

191919

i smiled

[pianorock1111]

yeah thats the only reason i remembered it

[eac2005]

You'll probably get sick of hearing this, but I am so so sorry. Death is absolutely awful, and there really is no rhyme or reason for it.

I'm not going to say I know how you feel because I don't. I'm just remembering that my grandfather [my dad's dad as well] died pretty suddenly about two years ago and I still remember how horrible everything was. The point of all this is....let me know if you ever want to talk or anything.

*major hugs*

[pianorock1111]

thanks for your concern

[jes_frozenpants]

i wish i could say something to help. :-\

i'll be thinking about you...viewings and funerals are terrible. the whole situation is terrible. call if you need to. i mean that. <3

[pianorock1111]

thanks very much jess. youre an awesome friend.

[spiffyuu]

My grandfather died about 3 weeks ago, also from alzheimers. I also wasn't very close to him.

Death sucks. It just does. But think about his quality of life before he died. My grandfather needed to be fed like a baby. By that point, their quality of life is so incredibly low that death is more like a release from the misery.

I know it sounds harsh, but atleast with some deaths you know that they are in a better place.

I am sorry for your loss hon

[pianorock1111]

i can definitely relate in this loss. its almost exactly the same thing that happened in my case too. its still pretty bittersweet though. it is just an added stress during one of the worst times ever. everyone will make it through this, it just sucks.

thanks for your concern though.

[rivereyes]

Oh honey. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure that everything wonderful about your grandfather lives on in you and your father.

[pianorock1111]

wow i kinda had to laugh out loud a little there. theres not too much good about my father. but i am glad you made me laugh at a time like this...

i think i may have seen you on campus today for once! i miss you molly. and thanks.

[rivereyes]

Yeeeeah. I though about that right after I posted, but I did not want to be a d-bag and delete the comment. How about we say awesomeness skips a generation?