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so I've been doing some more thinking (when there's precious little to be doing, it allows plenty more time for thinking)
and I've realized something. I always fall for the wrong girl. ALWAYS ( Read more... )
and I've realized something. I always fall for the wrong girl. ALWAYS ( Read more... )
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I could date someone & have something come between us,
but while it clearly doesn't make them the right person,
I feel the "wrong" person for me is someone that
causes me a significant amount of pain/emotional distress,
not just immediately but leaves a negative effect in the long run.
For instance: dating someone for 6 years that
repeatedly chose drugs over me....wrong person.
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I suppose the whole point of my entry though is that I have come to realize that normally if there were circumstances that were preventing two compatable people from dating, I used to just dismiss any possibility. Now I realize that those circumstances don't make it an impossibility, it just makes them "the wrong person" but also I've learned that being "the wrong person" isn't always a permanent thing because, as I said, circumstances can always be tweaked.
Not to say that your point wasn't valid, cuz it definitely was, I just guess that my ideas and conclusions I drew from this post may not have come through as clearly as I had hoped. Or maybe you were just commenting on a tangent that is very related to my post. Either way =)
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Also, I think that I'm kind of complicated in the fact that
I need someone who's thiiis close *makes pinching gesture*
to being the "wrong person", and who I will fight incessantly with,
and who will seem severely & irreversably screwed up & wrong for me.
Because that, as sick as it is, is the "right person" for me.
God, I digust myself.
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mebbe you should work on that and broaden your "right person" horizons =)
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