Its official

[pilot_scuba]

Last weekend we went away without the kids. A long 4 day weekend, hpoing it would be like a second honeymoon. WE had an okay time, but I wasn;t really into it. Hard to describe. No love left i think

Comments

[pasticcio]

I'm sorry - but at least you can say that you tried, right?

I hope the process is smooth, not too painful and not too financially draining for you.

*hugs*

[betsyrockett]

Eeesh! I hope everything goes as smooth as possible.

[sorah]

Aaaaah, scubaman. You did what you had to do for the sake of sanity. Best of whishes and peaceful days sent your way.

Sounds like it was an amicable seperation, so far. Good to get an attorney - better safe than sorry.

*hugs* to you, my friend.

[anonymous]

I hope that you and your wife don't give up. I hope that the separation is a way of stepping back and taking a good look at your marriage. I feel some of what you went through. My wife has told me the same things. My situation has only lasted four months. At times I do feel like giving up, even though I was the one who has tried so hard to not let our marriage end. It is hard to want to try to make something last when your spouse seems like they are not trying. Heck, people have said that I am crazy for staying as long has I have. They may be right. I hope they are worng. I will see when I reach that year mark.