I have decided.

[pinckrayonz]

I am no longer going to say "I love you" to a man unless I truely feal it and thus mean it. You know why? Because it hurts when a man says "I love you" and you find out later that he was not sure if it was true. Nothing good can come of saying "I love you" too often. Thus I have decided to break this bad habbit of mine.

Comments

[shamanist]

This is really how it has to be. These words should not
be taken lightly and should not be said and pronounced
just like that. I grew up in Europe and there actually
you never really said that implicitly, actually in most
case one does not have to say that as it becomes so
obvious in a relationship that there is no need to say
that... but of course it does not hurt to say it when
it is true. When it really happens you feel it, either
inside you or inside the other person and there is
no need to talk anymore... it just happens...

All the best.

[pinckrayonz]

Thanks. I think you are totally right.

[mamafabun]

Well, I love YOU.

[pinckrayonz]

awww. Thanks Honor. I love you too. You are such a good friend to me!

[mamafabun]

That's the plan so I'm glad it's working.

[the_kestral]

Sadly to many people treat those words to lightly and say it when they don't really feel that way about the person they are saying it to.

It was great meeting you Saturday, I truly enjoyed speaking with you. I hope you don't mind that I have gone ahead and added you.

[pinckrayonz]

not at all. I am glad! I hope that your foot is feeling better. We should get together again.