Alone Again, Naturally

[pingium]

I was just reading shayan 's post about his feelings about relationships and it comes at just the right time because I just got dumped this evening.  Once again I did not see it coming.

Three days before Thanksgiving last year my previous ex broke up with me the evening after we got back from a weekend in San Francisco.  Everything as far as I could tell

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[shayan]

oh no... sigh* HUGS babe.

[numbcow]

sweetie *hugs* I'm sorry that this hasn't worked out for you. And I feel kinda stupid telling you this when I'm in a relationship myself, but things WILL eventually work out. I know that no one likes to hear that, especially probably from someone in my situation, but you have to believe that everything will work out eventually.

Before I met Alex, I thought I was going to go through man after man that was wrong for me and didn't really want me. I used to get into relationships that weren't right for me really, but I stuck it out because it was easier than being alone. Maybe you're not so upset about this breakup with Mike because somewhere inside you you know that it wasn't right for a long-term thing. And what DOES hurt is the rejection...which anyone would feel whether they love the person or not.

*hugs* Hang in there, my love, you'll be okay...

[cosmic_mud]

i'm afraid i can't offer much except a great big hugs.

[anonymous]

I took a trip in July and when I got back, my girlfriend of six months broke up with me without saying why. She hasn't spoken to me since.

These situations and the lack of communication that leads up to and follows them are really hurtful, especially since there's nothing we can do about it.

I'm sorry, buddy. Just know that you have plenty of friends who are sticking by you.