This is Tarah, Nina's cousin..I need some advice!!!

[pink_cardigan]

Well id just like to say hello to all of nina's friends..and it was fun meeting most of you. Hope to see you some other time..but before i go i need some advice..oh yeah you guys are great!!! :]here i go

Comments

[bellyofunease]

i think if he told you himself, that he cheated, you should trust him that he wont do it again, and that it didn't mean anything. but you should ditch your bestfriend for fucking around with him.

thats what i think .

xo
holly

[badluckcharmel]

i'd have to agree fully.

talk things out.
see what happens.

goodluck.

Tarah

[bellyofunease]

thanx!

Tarah

[bellyofunease]

I already have plans to kick her ass when i get home!!
That bitch is gonna get fuct up!! The only problem is she has a big mouth, and she'll go straight to the cops and tell them that my boyfriend is over age..and he'll get rape charges..and i dont want that to happen. thanks for the advice. helped alot!

I'm the best person to ask

[dezilu]

i went to vista high school and my junior year i dated this guy named Luke (RRR) i thought i was in love and spent 24/7 with him then nine months and two days later he cheated on me and all i could so is cry my heart away.. it ruined me i have never been the same. but i do know this your young and hes not the one not right now at least no one deserves to be cheated on and if you accept this he'll lose respect for you believe me. theres to many guys out there and to many saturday nights to waste your life away...
oh im dez a friend of ninas..

Re: I'm the best person to ask--Tarah

[dezilu]

I dont know what i'm going to do right now..you make a point with the whole losing respect thing. Our relationship is a little different from yours and lukes, but your right on the dime. I dont know what i'm going to do, but thanks for the advice!! :]

**::shake hands::** "my name is tarah nice to meet you nina's friend!!"

Re: I'm the best person to ask--Tarah

[dezilu]

right back at ya

who knows

[bloody_sabotage]

it can go two ways, he can see that you forgave him and never do it again, or he will see that you forgave him and keep on doing it because there was no slap hand. you need to let him know that you are pissed and that it should never had it happened. the only reason not to dump him is your happiness, if he makes you that happy then dont, but only let the cheating happen once. yeah, i hope that all makes sense! ill miss you tarah. love eric!

Re: who knows

[pink_cardigan]

I think it is the first one of the two ways. We love eachother, and we are working it out. Don't worry about it he's going to get a fucking slap in the face when i see him.
i think your great and i'll miss you too. it was great meeting you.
xoxo

[voodoodoll134]

if you think he is going to do it again break up with him. if that would of happen to me i would break up with him. what he did was wrong. become his friend and maybe you guys can go out again. he fuck you over and that was uncalled for. i believe that it is both the girls and his flaut they are both people that you do not need in your life.

they fucked you over and yes all can be forgiven but things like this take time

Tarah

[voodoodoll134]

yea well i dont think he will do it again. we talk about everything. he told me straight up what happened, that dirty hoe fucking lied to me though. umm... he told me that he loved me and that he couldnt see himself with anyone else except for me.
thanx for the advice
much love

[40oz_to_freedom]

he does it once;
forgive him.
he does it again;
kick him to the curb.
.
if the is a good person,
then he wont do it again.
i cheated on a boyfriend once &i consider it one of the worste things ive ever done.
cheating now repulses me beacuse i know how much pain it puts everyone involved through.
&if he really loves you he will see all of the pain that his cheating put you through
&he will NEVER do it again.
xoxo

ps. this is sarah.
i met you while you were down here visting nina.
we did illegal things at the park &i was with my boyfriend.
i just wanted to say that i think your way cool girl
&if you come down again id love to see you.
good luck with yr man.

Tarah

[40oz_to_freedom]

hi sarah..illegal things in the park!!lol
well thanks for the advice..I'm going to give him another chance, and just only one.
It was nice meeting you, stay cool!!
tarah
xoxo