O.k i'm back and more down than ever, i mean i can't figure this out and the only thing I can do is just write. I've even thought of a freestyle poem called I used to love her
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it seems like ya'll aren't communicating (under-statement?). that's vital. i hope ya'll are talking right now.
*quick tip* when ever you talk to her, tell her how you feel by using "I" statements. instead of saying "you did this... you never... you always" say "i feel... when this happened i felt... this hurts me... i miss you..." this will keep you from getting defensive. trust me this works! and it could be used to save your relationship.
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*quick tip* when ever you talk to her, tell her how you feel by using "I" statements. instead of saying "you did this... you never... you always" say "i feel... when this happened i felt... this hurts me... i miss you..." this will keep you from getting defensive. trust me this works! and it could be used to save your relationship.
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