Relationship Woes

[pinkisevul]

I don't deserve to be called names. I feel as though I'm the only one he shows contempt for and it is not fair. I may be having an attitude, perhaps because I'm frustrated at a situation that doesn't involve him at all, but that does not warrant him calling me three different epithets in a row. No, it does not. I will not stand for another

Comments

[glazed_donut]

You're right Margaret, no one deserves the right to call anyone names that belittles them or makes them feel bad, especially a wonderful person like you. You probably know why people do it better than i do with your psych background, but it gives those people the wrong type of power trip.

I hope things get better and you work things out, and he better stop being mean to you!

Call me if you need me!

[pinkisevul]

Thanks Melissa! What are you up to this weekend? We should hang out. I am going to call my parents about the car tomorrow, but I'm guessing they are going to say no. (They want to save up for the apartment in San Francisco for me, which sounds alright to me.) We worked things out, but I really need to keep on him about this.
love,
Margaret

[happymedium]

if you need someone to talk to, Will and I are here. I'm not really sure what this entry means, but if are upset about it, it must not be good. Remember, its exam season. He may be a little stressed so it may get better once it blows over. Hope your night goes well....

[pinkisevul]

Yeah I think a lot of it is just that he gets rather impulsive and doesn't know when to stop. It's an ADD thing, but I keep on him about it. We're also used to our parents fighting a lot and us fighting with them. So they are habits we both have to break. I'm trying not to give him an excuse for bad behavior, you know? Whether it is exam week or not, he shouldn't be treating me that way. Thanks for the comments though. I'm glad your exams are over. You seem less stressed out and more happy. Had fun at the pool today! We will be doing that more this summer, yeah?
love,
Margaret

[happymedium]

true very true

[allanc]

Wow. I couldn't imagine doing something like this to my girlfriend. I just don't understand some people...

[pinkisevul]

I hate to think that people will think bad of him now. He's really not like that the majority of the time. It just has been happening a lot recently since we've been fighting a lot. I just wanted to get some things off my chest.
love,
Margaret