My mum decided to fuck off to Sussex 18 months ago. I had the option to go with her but demurred. I stayed with my dad and one brother. I'd've hated going with them.
I understand you and your father are close, unlike my mother and I, but really it comes down to choosing either a fresh start or independence and a relationship with a man you might be destined to be with.
It's a tough decision - how much time do you have to decide?
i think my main problem is what other people think. i should stop caring. im trying. i just dont want people to think im staying for sex or going just to follow my fahter like the kid i am. im sure ill work it out. i think i know what ill end up doing. im still only young, if i make a mistake...easily rectified. (cant spell too well today - apologies)
I'd say the scales are tipped towards staying. Your father is only a phonecall away and one person, where as if you left you'd be leaving your boyfriend, workfriends and socialfriends too and that'd be alot more phonecalls to make :D
Failing that, your father will always be there and you can visit etc and it would be special, Like alice said, with the beach etc :)
its a tough decision, but as *everyones already said this i know* people say your family will always be there over the phone. And visting will be extra speical......sea side holidays rock.....:)
Im shitting myself about moving away in september...not that has any actual relevence but yeh.erm...*goes away*
Sorry I've not been about for ages, been working lots dammit. Not seen you online recently either though... You think you'd be ok without your dad around?
i dont think you understood. hes still here but moving. ive practically moved out anyway. just my stuffs there. only stayed there a few nights in total this past mth or so. i refuse to stay tehre alone now.
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I understand you and your father are close, unlike my mother and I, but really it comes down to choosing either a fresh start or independence and a relationship with a man you might be destined to be with.
It's a tough decision - how much time do you have to decide?
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i just dont want people to think im staying for sex or going just to follow my fahter like the kid i am.
im sure ill work it out.
i think i know what ill end up doing. im still only young, if i make a mistake...easily rectified.
(cant spell too well today - apologies)
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Go with what feels right, don't worry about what other people think because that really doesn't matter for anything.
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if I was you I'd stay in Northampton.
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this way you can save the seaside for holidays and that'll make it more special
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Failing that, your father will always be there and you can visit etc and it would be special, Like alice said, with the beach etc :)
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Im shitting myself about moving away in september...not that has any actual relevence but yeh.erm...*goes away*
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