Facebook and I

Sep 16, 2013 13:20

So recently a 'friend' posted her engagement pics. On Facebook. So did many more actually. I am in that age bracket where it will keep happening for quite some time, and whenever it happens, it makes me happy on some level if they are, or were my actual friends at some point of time, or if in my eyes they are really nice people. On the other hand, ( Read more... )

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lyuna September 16 2013, 08:29:26 UTC
I know that feeling well - boyfriends/girlfriends left and right, people getting engaged, married... but then I try to tell myself every time "why should I"
It's not like we have an obligation to anyone to, at a certain age, be settled down and be happy with some random guy we might have met somewhere. Who dictates these things anyway? Well, society does, but I've never been terribly keen on listening to what society dictates :p
I think that as long as we're happy with what we have (or in this case don't have) it shouldn't matter that other people expect you to find some life partner.

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pinksnow1986 September 16 2013, 12:32:58 UTC
*HUGS*

Thanks Mel! ♥ Needed that xD

Honestly, even I fail with it. I kinda like it when things happen naturally >> so no am in no mood to go on a man-hunt just because I am on the wrong side of 25 or sth >> am sure most of our friends/family mean well with concern and stuff, but yesh it just makes me head-desk some more!

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Happy Birthday! speadee October 2 2013, 09:45:27 UTC
Sorry I haven't been keeping up. I've been busy and haven't been at LJ much myself ( ... )

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Re: Happy Birthday! pinksnow1986 October 3 2013, 14:05:46 UTC
Stay strong! One should always be free to make their own decisions. Its tough but its possible.

I like to take things one step at a time :) thats how I intend to keep it as well. Right now I am too tied up trying to establish myself professionally to think about anything else ><

We should probably stop worrying about right and wrong, and do things that would bring more happiness :)

Hope things sort out for you as well, I wouldn't worry too much about facebook friends, half of them are just a number in the list anyways...

Take care and thank you for the lovely Birthday Greeting!

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Happy Birthday! speadee October 3 2014, 01:15:39 UTC
http://www.123greetings.com/send/view/10502014118710310297

Sorry I haven't kept up. Things have been busy.

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cyrus57446 November 16 2016, 20:07:17 UTC
I find the paradox in a human being especially amazing - one who wishes and cherishes above all else

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