Seriously though, you should sit him down and make it clear that you're not taking all the expenses. Make it very very clear that if he thinks this is unreasonable well, it's your house, it's your car and you have proved you don't need him to pay the bills. There's the door and don't let it hit you on the way out.
Yeah, you know what's going on. This was just... things like this keep happening that just make me more and more frustrated, to tears sometimes. So it's up to me to do something about it.
Things have not really improved, but the tension has been building to the point where I'm going to just have to bite the bullet and have the conversation no one wants to have, and yet it is necessary.
I probably won't partake in the upcoming exchanges; I've got a large fic I'm trying to set in order so that I feel comfortable posting the first part, and anything else will just distract me from it. I first came up with the idea a year ago, almost exactly to the day, and it's just fear and anxiety that are stopping me from finishing it up. Plus I get distracted with other fic ideas :D
Thanks for checking up on me! I will let you know how it goes.
coasting is an apt description. things are just too comfortable, and too much effort to try and break free. Safer and less stressful to just not rock the boat. but then again, it's getting a bit uncomfortable lately, and the negative energy is seriously affecting my state of mind. I can't function at optimum capacity, and time and opportunity are slipping through my fingers.
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Seriously though, you should sit him down and make it clear that you're not taking all the expenses. Make it very very clear that if he thinks this is unreasonable well, it's your house, it's your car and you have proved you don't need him to pay the bills. There's the door and don't let it hit you on the way out.
Might be a wake up call to the...man.
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Are you going to take part in any of the fandom fests/exchanges that are going around?
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Things have not really improved, but the tension has been building to the point where I'm going to just have to bite the bullet and have the conversation no one wants to have, and yet it is necessary.
I probably won't partake in the upcoming exchanges; I've got a large fic I'm trying to set in order so that I feel comfortable posting the first part, and anything else will just distract me from it. I first came up with the idea a year ago, almost exactly to the day, and it's just fear and anxiety that are stopping me from finishing it up. Plus I get distracted with other fic ideas :D
Thanks for checking up on me! I will let you know how it goes.
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thank you so much for your support!
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