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I think I'm far too trusting and open because it's my personality, I guess. I'm just a friendly person. I say this because every once in a while, I get reminded that not everyone can be trusted. I shouldn't be saying as much as I do. And I could be trusting the wrong people without even knowing it. Then not being able to trust people , makes me

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[eowyn]

Did something happen to make you reflect on this?

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Yeah. When people talk behind my back at work.

[eowyn]

Ugh. I'm sorry. *Hugs*

[place_to_hide]

It's okay. *Hug* I also have to remind myself, not everyone is a friend even though they might pretend to be or their just being nice because you should be.

[xfirefly9x]

I don't think you're being naive in thinking/hoping you can trust someone. And not trusting so easily isn't necessarily a good thing. You may be hurt less often, but then, you may also miss out on a lot and it's not fun being on alert at all times.

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Yeah. I'm not always very open to begin with. I can be quiet and reserved to new people I don't know anyway. Or most of the time, I can be quiet around strangers.

[maybe]

I don't think there is anything wrong with being an open and trusting person, being closed off completely isn't healthy. Sometimes people can be asshats tho, sorry that it sounds like someone broke your trust. (hugs)

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I don't think I'd ever be closed off completely. It's ok. *Hug* I think I just have to be mindful of co-workers who are just being nice because you should be...

[crazybellatrix]

I can relate with this post so much. I'm a very friendly person, and am very open about everything. Though, if I feel that someone is not being very nice to me or I get a bad vibe from someone, then I won't hesitate to let them know. Ha hah.

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Yeah. I do just say whatever whether people care or not. I'm not sure everyone does. I have a hard time reading people's vibes and stuff.

[crazybellatrix]

Same here. I've nothing to hide.