i've got big, big plans
If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be? I'd give everyone a second chance. Whether it's a chance to get an education, or a chance to reconcile with family, or even a chance to get to get to class on time, you'd get that second chance. It seems like a lot of the problems in the world would at least have a fair chance of being bettered as long as you used your do-over responsibly. True, many of the same situations and catch-22s would arise, but I'd like to hope that some would turn out better a second time around.
What makes a person respectable? In my eyes, I respect people for many different reasons, some contradicting even. I admire and respect people who treat others kindly and fairly, who don't take advantage of the weak. At the same time, people who are confident enough to use their intelligence to get ahead of the pack blow me away. I hold in high esteem anyone who is willing to disagree with the party line and stand up for what they believe in Right and Good, even when it's not the easiest thing to do.
What do you look for in a friend? I can't honestly say I intentionally set out to make friends with any certain "type" of person--my friends are extremely varied, from low places and high. If I had to describe an ideal friend, though, loyalty is high on the list. I want to know for sure that even if I do something less than wonderful you're still going to stick by my side. I need honesty, because with honesty comes trust. If I know you're lying to others (not to mention myself), I'm incapable of trusting you fully. A strong sense of adventure is perfect for the spontaneous plans I come up with late at night. A girl always needs a partner in crime, whether it's exploring abandoned houses in corn fields at night or driving to the beach inside of going to class. Other traits would be a sense of humor similar to mine (a bit dry, dark, and a penchant for the random), and the ability to carry on serious conversation about serious subjects when needed.
What are your hobbies? I'm an avid reader, I love books like High Fidelity and A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius. As a direct result of my compulsive reading, I enjoy writing, but only in non-school situations. This summer I practice a lot with my band (I'm the vocalist and lyricist) and play a lot of Tony Hawk on Playstation. My friends and I go to an obscene number of rock shows, which I suppose could be considered a hobby. I like knitting, as well (though, I'm only really proficient at scarves because I don't have the patience to learn how to do long and difficult things like mittens.)
Have or would you give time and money to a charity? Of course, if I had the money and time to spare. I went to Guatemala this past spring to help the Maya in the highlands, over a school break. Truthfully, I think I was more excited about the shopping opportunities going in, but the experience made me realize that there were other people aside from myself in the universe.
What is the one thing you would most like to accomplish? I want to be remembered. For me, to be forgotten about is to never have existed at all. I'm mildly obsessed with creating some kind of legacy before I die, whether through writing or deed or some other method. It sounds rather self-centered, but I'm honest.
Who is your role model? This is a bit of a soft spot for me. For all of my childhood, I would've said my father. He's a good man, fair and generous. I was so proud when people told me how much I reminded them of him. Of course, childhood had to end, and with it came the realization that my father's not infallible. I guess I got disappointed and hurt by him (to keep things vague, because I really hate talking about my personal life) and he fell off the pedestal. Since then? I just try to be the best possible person for me.
What trait most annoys you about other people? I cannot stand it when someone is condescending to me. Don't humor me, don't dismiss me, don't act like you know better. You know nothing about what makes up me. However, I unfortunately am guilty of doing this very act to others, since I always seem to believe I know best.
What do you want to do for a living? Another touchy question. I'm in college now and have changed my major more times than I care to admit. I'm currently studying anthropology, which I don't really want to do for the rest of my life. I think I'd like to be an actor, or be in a band, though. In a perfect world and all that.
If your friend was attacked (by a person, animal, or (in the magic world) beast), what would you do? I'd fight back, protect my friend. That's obvious. Whether through force or through reason, it'd get done. Once I knew they were safe, I'd make sure whomever (or whatever) was responsible was held accountable. I live in a major metropolitan area, and the one thing I've learned is to watch my back and not to let anyone take advantage of me, just because I'm a girl.
Would you ever use an Unforgivable Curse for any reason? I wouldn't use it for any petty reason. Actually, I wouldn't use it even if someone purposely, oh, I don't know, killed my cat. However, use it against a true evil? Use it to protect myself and my loved ones? I would. My hands might be shaking, but my aim would be true. There comes a time when you have to stand up against the opposing forces, and I know I will do what it takes to end the problem.
What do you think are your top five abilities or qualities? I'll list.
1.) I'm an incredible public speaker. I can convince an audience almost anything, once I start speaking. My stage persona is absolutely nothing like my real life personality, but I think it's better that way. People whom know me well are totally surprised by this "new" person and I use that surprise to my advantage. I suppose it's related to the fact that I do theatre--I can keep a straight face and say anything at all.
2.) I write well. The ability to express yourself intelligently and succinctly is valued in the academic community and it's a skill well received in the so-called real world. I know how to tailor my words to fit my audience, to allow them to connect in the fullest way possible with my work. In fiction and in business writing, I can create a believable world that the reader feels safe losing him or herself in. This is especially useful in business writing, when often I need that trust to achieve my goals.
3.) I'm a funny girl. No, this is a very useful trait to possess. Often, a well-timed joke or comment will diffuse tense situations, or cheer up a sad friend. While I tend to see the humor in dark subjects, where it might not always be considered appropriate, people still love to laugh, in the end.
4.) I listen. I know when someone needs to tell you their stories, and I'm always willing to listen. Plus, I learn so very much in new situations by keeping my mouth shut and just absorbing all that's being said. Not unlike a sponge. By just listening to a group, I become aware of the dynamics, who the dominant personality is, what remarks would gain me favor with which people.
5.)Your mom likes me. Seriously. I've got excellent manners (thank you, charm school), I can make small talk well and I dress neatly when needed. While this may seem trivial, it's helpful to have your boyfriend's mom think you're the best thing ever.
What do you think are your top five weaknesses or worst qualities?
1.) I can be extremely quiet around people I don't know. While this coincides with number four, above, it can be a negative trait. Often people overlook me and I lose out on making new friends because I'm not speaking out. I suppose it's a bit of social anxiety slipping in, but I do try to work past it as much as possible.
2.) I'm extremely private. I can keep secrets well, but I hardly ever tell anyone my own. Senior year of high school brought about some, erm, Bad Family Times. I had to learn to depend on myself and not my parents for the first time and I started bottling up all my feelings. I hear from friends that someone asked them about me and they realized, with no small amount of shock, that they know very little about me. I'm good at appearing very open while showing absolutely nothing of worth. ...I suppose that's why I have so few Really Good Friends.
3.) I don't like school. File this under weaknesses, because it's killing me. College is supposed to be the best years of my life and I'm still waiting for school to get interesting. Because I dislike school, I don't feel motivated to go to class, which means I'm not motivated to do my work, which means I have to withdraw from classes. *sighs* I was an excellent student in high school, but no one would know it by my college transcripts.
4.) I have rage black outs. Okay, I'm totally kidding about the rage black outs. I don't black out. *g* I'm an extremely patient person, by nature, but once I hit a certain point... I lose it. My temper gets the best of me--it's rare, but when it happens, watch out. I've definitely been in the situation where people are literally holding me back while I scream at a boy. I don't think I would've actually hit him. Well. Probably not.
5.) I'm dismissive of people who don't appear as intelligent as myself. Improper grammar and a voiced dislike of reading will earn you nothing more than a bland smile from myself. After that, I can't take your opinions seriously because you seem, well, like you don't know as much as me.
Define in your own words the following key traits:
Courage: It's doing what needs to be done, despite certain failure. Courage means standing up for what you believe in, no matter what anyone says or does. It's the ability to stand on your own two feet without losing faith.
Loyalty: Loyalty is hard for me to define. I think it's a lot of standing by the people you love, even when they disappoint you. It's giving second and third and fourth chances and believing that the person will turn out all right in the end.
Intelligence: Intelligence is more than just book smarts, although I do believe that's important. It's being aware of the world you live in and knowing how to properly move through that world. Knowing what to do when is extremely important, and being intelligent is just that.
Ambition: Ambition can be a lot of things, but mostly for me it's knowing what you want and doing what it takes to get there. It might hurt like hell in the process, but the end excuses the means.
Name:Ash
Age:20
What house do you think DOESN'T fit you? If I knew for certain, I wouldn't bother filling out this application.
Where did you find out about us?Erm. I was browsing through friendfriends communities. Stumbled here, truthfully.