so you know exactly then. I hate that you went through it, but it really makes me feel better to know I'm actually not the only person alive who has ever experienced this! thank you for reminding me.
It actually does get easier by the day but you don't realize that until one day in retrospect you figure it out. It gets all fucked up hard at first there for a while because of all the feelings and the tons of things you wish you had answers that you wanted to hear but actually don't, but it starts to fizzle away.
If I could give you one bit of advice, and by all means you don't have to listen to shit I say, I'd recommend that you deal with those really painful and upsetting emotions and the hurt while it's happening and not just try to find a sunny day tomorrow to shove it in or away and make things “forgettable.” I didn't choose to deal with things as they came with a certain you know who and she happens to be the first and last time I did that. I have never been in such a heartbreaking, frustrating, hurtful, all those words relationship end or situation end again since fixing that problem though and days get better as each new one comes.
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If I could give you one bit of advice, and by all means you don't have to listen to shit I say, I'd recommend that you deal with those really painful and upsetting emotions and the hurt while it's happening and not just try to find a sunny day tomorrow to shove it in or away and make things “forgettable.” I didn't choose to deal with things as they came with a certain you know who and she happens to be the first and last time I did that. I have never been in such a heartbreaking, frustrating, hurtful, all those words relationship end or situation end again since fixing that problem though and days get better as each new one comes.
Hang in there, kiddo!
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