For Attilla - This is how it's done

Jan 05, 2008 16:50

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radiantsun January 6 2008, 02:02:17 UTC
Do your three wives get to have their own playmates now and then? Because that sounds like a sweet deal . . . especially if the wives get along and don't play those bullshit cutthroat games a few women play.

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plural January 6 2008, 02:07:22 UTC
the dream didn't really cover
the sexual aspects of the relationship

in life
It isn't something I've really encountered
I went through a brief phase
of dating girls who were bi-sexual
and the general rule was
they could bring someone to our bed
but outside play was a no no.

I've only had one relationship
which involved more than one person
which took place during the same period of my life
in which a girl I was living with
invited one of her female friends to move in with us

I had sex with each of them
and they had sex with each other
but the question of outside individuals never came up

so I guess the short answer is that
I do not know
considering that the opportunity to pursue something like this
let alone the desirability of doing so
is quite unlikely
I haven't put much thought into
how I would feel in that regard

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plural January 6 2008, 02:21:28 UTC
I think the hardest thing would be determining who took which role and for how long. I suspect that to a large extent roles would shift over time with the changing needs of individuals and the group but it would still require some sacrifices ( ... )

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radiantsun January 6 2008, 02:26:43 UTC
Unless it's a family owned and operated business . . .. I can see enjoying all three roles, although I find the running a business one terrifying. Although the business I would want to run, involves a lot of working vacation . . .

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zaiah January 6 2008, 02:42:47 UTC
Ahem. I'm glad to see the seeds planted 5 years ago finally bubbling up and through. Irespective of the specifics of that dream - I am quite pleased you could envision yourself, even if only when asleep, in such a happy place. That said, I (am crazy enough to) think that sort of a family arrangement has the capacity to work beautifully.

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ignote January 6 2008, 03:49:05 UTC
Ever seen "Big Love"? lol

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plural January 6 2008, 23:18:44 UTC
can't say that i have

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ignote January 7 2008, 04:36:43 UTC
It is fascinating - I don't get HBO, but I rented the first season from netflix. It opened my brainwashed lutheran head to the idea that it's possible that one person can't provide everything to you. Although, I kind of knew that from experience...

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atillathehung January 6 2008, 17:10:36 UTC
Saved yourself bucks and time, you did. I'm thinking of how much fun it would be to start a "Men Against Nodoro" campaign. The acronym is PERFECT!

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plural January 6 2008, 23:18:34 UTC
Indeed
on all counts

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