My parents did the same thing to me when my grandfather died. I found out two days later than everyone else did because I "was busy" and "he wouldn't have wanted to ruin my fun".
I'm really sorry, Robin. If you need a late-night shoulder or sounding board or just a hug, you're welcome to use me.
I'm sorry to hear about your dad :( That is really shitty that your mom pulled that crap on you. I'm always just a phone call away if you ever need anything.
My dad did that to me with my great-uncle - he didn't tell me till after the funeral and I was close him, too. His rationale was "you were busy". Fuck that! :(
Sorry to hear about your dad though hon - that's awful. I hope everything turns out okay.
It's something parents do. There's no stopping it, no matter how mad you get. All my love sweetness!!! Big hugs to *all* of your family, *please* let me know if there's anything I can do to help!! At this point, I feel like a bit of an expert on parental illness... Not that knowledge always helps in situations like this. Keep all of us updated, and we'll keep you in our prayers.
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I'm really sorry, Robin. If you need a late-night shoulder or sounding board or just a hug, you're welcome to use me.
~Leah
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you owe me a hug... I may even charge interest and require a tight squeeze in the process.
So there... that's what you get
miss ya babe,
Robin
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Sorry to hear about your dad though hon - that's awful. I hope everything turns out okay.
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Big hugs to *all* of your family, *please* let me know if there's anything I can do to help!! At this point, I feel like a bit of an expert on parental illness...
Not that knowledge always helps in situations like this. Keep all of us updated, and we'll keep you in our prayers.
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--K
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