It seems I can still charm...the pitfalls of...

[poeticbetrayal]

So last night was Dorian's Bday, we went to the enourmous room for dinner...so far , so good, compared lists with a bitter cynic about what we wanted ( or in my case so do not want ) in a life partner...Curiously whilst I had no interest in said bitter cynic, I was quite sad to see that I only matched 29 of her 42 criteria

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[xchainsawx]

you coming today???

[poeticbetrayal]

Umm something quite bad just happened, see my next private post..I am so furious, not at you ...but I owuld be the worst company right now.

[eshcaine]

Curious, what are your criteria for a life partner? I ask because several of us were discussing attraction and qualities at lunch today.

And sorry to hear something unpleasant happened...

-e

[poeticbetrayal]

I used to know exactly what I was looking for...but it turns out it was fools gold...

Somethigns I dont think I could do without...

a brain, kindness, laugheter, a joy of the little things, the little moments...Cool shows and thigh highs...

Actualy I am thinking that I might come up, like my friend has, with 42 criteria...

Simply M
and half cat , i am curious what did you and your friends seek?

[eshcaine]

Well what we were discussing was a particular friend of ours who seems to be drawn to a certain type of female...he always is drawn to the tall, model slender, red haired girls. However, each girl also seems to be absolutely messed up in the head. So we were trying to figure out if he was just following his libido and just attracted to skinny girls (who happen to be broken) or if there was something more deeply psycological going on there.

Having a list/criteria is sound I think, as long as it doesn't get too unrealistic.

Meanwhile, things my girlfriends and I are attracted to are confidence, the way a guy moves when he walks, intelligence and excellent senses of humor. All those will trump his physical appearance regardless of what that might be.

-e

[poeticbetrayal]

Ok, just so I am clear I am not your friend, right?

That being said...
I think I should move to Chicago, you could pimp me put to your gal pals....

wait, wait..I keep forgetting I am gay now..Got to get a handle on that

But as a man , much like your friend, I would say sub consciously I always pick broken women, why? I have no idea, I hate the results, it is always hellicious pain

simply m