Yo, you're awesome. And one of the only reasons I stick around LJ. You keep it real, gurl! Hopefully we'll get to hang out someday, 'cause I think we'd have a blasty blast.
Im gonna be awesome, and not be anon, I just wanted to say you were my first livejournal friend, and even though we dont talk that much anymore, i love you like crazy and i think that you are beautiful inside and out. You deserve the best<3
I've missed talking to you. We definitely need to talk more. <333 I think I'm just still trying to get used to your rename, so I forget that it's you when you post. :(
Oh, for sure! Hit me up at dance to this bden at gmail dot com (minus all the spaces; I've been getting a lot of spam lately, so I'm trying to avoid it. Haha) anytime, and I'll be sure to email you back.
What am I supposed to do when my "best friend" is too busy to talk to me? she says "it'll be better when the rush is over", That doesn't really help me when I'm having problems right now does it? She's making me feel like I'm a whiny bitch who always needs attention. (she's moving, that's why she's busy, but she said so herself the other day (in a blog) that she's has plenty of time to pack)
Sometimes it feels like no one notices that I need to talk too. They're too busy with their own problems and I'm suppose to help them with their problems and deal with my own, on my own, as well. FUCK FRIENDS!
Sorry I needed to vent. You don't have to tell me if you know who I am. I like to keep the illusion that I'm anonymous.
I'm not actually sure who you are, so you're still anonymous. :)
I've been in a similar situation before, and all I can really say is that you shouldn't be blaming yourself or jumping to conclusions. Some people just aren't very perceptive and don't realize that they're being hypocritical or distant or whatever. Has the friend acted this way before? 'Cause if she has, maybe she's just a shitty friend. *shrugs* If it's more of a one-time thing, maybe you could try writing her an email or a letter so that you can still talk to her about what's bothering you, but you can both do it on your own time. And let her know that you're feeling this way, but don't do it in an accusatory manner. Just, you know, tell her that you know she's been busy, but that you have some things that you'd really like to be able to get her support and advice about or whatever.
And, hey, I'm here any time if you need a listener. ♥
Yeah there have been things before where she just "falls off the face of the earth" for a while. Like a couple of months ago, she was gone from the internet a while so I texted her to find out if she was alright, but she didn't answer my text. We where planning on going to the movies together at the time and I asked her if we where still going. She answered that one, told me that she couldn't go because she was short on cash(even though it was right after Christmas and she had gotten a shitload of money). Then her phone started failing again and she said that she was getting it fixed. But then a couple of weeks later it magically started working again :P
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Boo, she sounds like a crappy friend. It's not fair to yourself to be in such a one-sided friendship, but it's also a hard thing to actually talk about. If it were me, I'd probably just try to distance myself from her for a while -- but I know that's not always easy to do, especially when you feel like you could really use a good friend at the moment. I wish I could help you more. :( *hugs*
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I just wanted to say you were my first livejournal friend, and even though we dont talk that much anymore, i love you like crazy and i think that you are beautiful inside and out. You deserve the best<3
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Maybe we should email more as well?
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She's making me feel like I'm a whiny bitch who always needs attention.
(she's moving, that's why she's busy, but she said so herself the other day (in a blog) that she's has plenty of time to pack)
Sometimes it feels like no one notices that I need to talk too. They're too busy with their own problems and I'm suppose to help them with their problems and deal with my own, on my own, as well.
FUCK FRIENDS!
Sorry I needed to vent. You don't have to tell me if you know who I am. I like to keep the illusion that I'm anonymous.
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I've been in a similar situation before, and all I can really say is that you shouldn't be blaming yourself or jumping to conclusions. Some people just aren't very perceptive and don't realize that they're being hypocritical or distant or whatever. Has the friend acted this way before? 'Cause if she has, maybe she's just a shitty friend. *shrugs* If it's more of a one-time thing, maybe you could try writing her an email or a letter so that you can still talk to her about what's bothering you, but you can both do it on your own time. And let her know that you're feeling this way, but don't do it in an accusatory manner. Just, you know, tell her that you know she's been busy, but that you have some things that you'd really like to be able to get her support and advice about or whatever.
And, hey, I'm here any time if you need a listener. ♥
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METHINKS YOU NEED A RANDOM PICTURE POST.
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