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poisonivy2425

Relationships: On Cheating

May 03, 2012 19:16

I rarely use my livejournal these days, but I've found this topic has been coming up a lot lately, and it's made me want to say something.

Ever since I reached the age where friends started dating, the topic of cheating and infidelity has been thrown about - not so much specifically in relation to my group of friends, but I've heard stories of ( Read more... )

relationships, cheating, long distance relationship

Comments 4

piffle_faerie May 6 2012, 00:32:56 UTC

yoooo are you on msn? I have a story about cheaterssss (not me, but someone from my work!) Crazy story too!

piffle_faerie May 6 2012, 00:36:40 UTC

Next time, next time!

ubernerd09 May 6 2012, 15:10:19 UTC

Brilliant post as always, Will. I heard somewhere (I think it was somewhere science-y) that men instinctively have the urge to "be fruitful and multiply" with as many women as possible. So I guess that being monogamous is only possible if one fights against their instincts ( ... )

poisonivy2425 May 9 2012, 03:04:45 UTC

Thanks, my friend! I've heard that too - about the whole "men have it in their instincts" to...well... pretty much do every girl they see. :P If that's true, though, LOTS of men have fought against their "instincts." There are tons of relationships out there - esp. from our cultures where arranged marriages were common (and still are in some cases in mine - not sure if that flies so much in Chinese culture these days lol) - and couples stay together, even if they didn't start out loving each other... and never stray. What accounts for that...? Hmm... If there IS some sciencey way to study cheating, I'd love to find out what's being done and said ( ... )