Name: Heather
Age: 22
Previously stamped as: Theme: Water; Eeveelution: Flareon
Briefly describe your personality: My personality is whatever it wants to be in the moment. At work I'm smiley, helpful, and cheerful- "bubbly" is a word my customers use to describe me a lot. With my friends I'm super sarcastic and teasing- If I make fun of you, rest assured I consider myself comfortable with you. Alone, I'm pretty contemplative and relaxed-- unless there is work to be done. I don't like to miss deadlines or make excuses. I want to get things done on time, impress people… It just makes me feel good about myself. I'm an INFP that may appear to have a pretty strongly developed J as well.
Positive traits: Determined, Empathetic, Confident, Curious, Protective, Honest, Humorous
Negative traits: Judgmental, Arrogant, Unorganized, Temperamental, Impatient, … a somewhat short attention span?
Neutral traits: Imaginative/daydreamy, bigger-picture-oriented, introverted
Optimistic or Pessimistic: Compared to most people, I'd say I'm pretty optimistic, though my bouts of sarcasm seem to sometimes convince people otherwise. Sarcasm is just my way of coping with unpleasant situations; overall I have to believe that things are going to turn out for the better, or else my temper, impatience, and sense of security will just spiral out of control and burn quite a few people in the process.
Realistic or Idealistic: I'm rather idealistic. Even when I've had a nice day I tend to pick through it for faults and things that could have gone better. I tend to get outwardly angry and stressed a lot when things don't go my way. ESPECIALLY if it's something out of my control. I HAVE TO BE IN CONTROL OH MY GOD.
Cheerful or Melancholy: Cheerful, though that doesn't necessarily mean I'm frolicking through the flowers singing Sesame Street tunes. I'm a more low-key cheerful. That little girl you see sitting at the table coloring intently when you enter a doctor's office. That's me.
Emotional or Stoic: Emotional as fuck. If something pisses me off in real life, I tend to just bitch loudly and stomp around-- if people are pissing me off, I'm usually able to redirect the anger towards the situation, but that doesn't keep people from feeling uncomfortable by it. I've actually stormed off from situations after bitching and had friends apologize in my wake for my behavior (which tends to make me even angrier e_e). At work, if a customer pisses me off, I have to shove the situation away in a cold, dissociative rage and let someone else handle it, because I cannot pretend to be nice to people who are being rude to me. I will only give you as much respect as you give me; treat me as sub-human/insult my intelligence, and you can talk to my manager, because I am fucking done. Aside from anger… Well, I cry regularly at sad movies. I do get lonely quite a bit, and I tend to overdramatize my situations in my head as being much worse than they are. On the flip side, when I'm happy, I feel like I'm floating. Happiness to me can be as simple as a hot cup of tea in the morning after a good night's sleep. I have a wide range of emotions, and I am not afraid to show them at all.
Introverted of Extroverted: Introverted. I can be nice to anyone, but very few people can I stand for longer than an hour or two. Like I said, I'm just inwardly judgmental. I'm also a bit awkward because I assume people are as judgmental as me, which makes me nervous. I can see through smiles and find ill intentions behind them, however small.
Independent or Dependent: I'm not completely independent because I'm still growing up, but the fact that I feel guilty about being dependent on people should kind of show you where I am on the scale.
Passive or Aggressive: Passive aggressive? I'll walk off and cuss off a storm to blow off steam from a moment that has just happened. My policy is not to get mad at people (at least not openly), but to be pissed at the situation. This confuses people sometimes; oftentimes they think I'm mad at them anyway. orz.
And on the rare occasion when I AM mad at people? I have flashes of intense anger that I tend to skip over by completely ignoring the person's bitchiness and moving on quickly to the next subject to keep myself from STABBING THEM IN THE FACE.
Tempermental or Calm: Temperamental. Although I often surprise myself-- some days, I'll drop my pencil and think the world is picking on me, and other days lots of legit horrible things will happen and I'll somehow be able to carry on fairly calmly and rationally. I think the difference is the amount of sleep I get, lol.
Brains or Brawn: Brains. No need to physically outperform someone when you can just outwit them and save half the effort, eh?
Trusting or Cynical: It just depends on what it is. If we're talking about sharing feelings, I tend to not be very secretive by default, so I don't mind being open and honest with people who are inquiring about my feelings (though I do feel like it senseless to go shouting them out without purpose). Like seriously, ask me anything-- I'll tell you, I don't really care. But if we're talking about doing favors, like picking me up from someplace or taking me someplace at a certain time-period, or anything remotely related… well, I get nervous. I do not want plans to fall through because I'm depending on someone else to be on time or tell me the truth or anything like that. This is why I'm not an event planner within my group of friends. If I don't have a history of reasons to trust you to be on time or act responsibly… I'm not going to. This is where that J/P thing comes in, haha. I've grown up rather typically P, but on this I am a rather firm-footed J. I need absolute control over my situations, which is why it's hard to trust people that haven't given me good reason to before.
Favourites:
Color: Pink!! And rainbows. :D
Music: 80's, oldies, classic rock, symphony, fandom music, random New Age stuff. Basically, my collection is super eclectic and I'll give anything a listen once.
Quote: "Whether you think you can or can't… you're right!" -Henry Ford
Lyric: "And if you never stop when you wave goodbye, you just might find if you give it time, you will wave hello again." -John Mayer, "Wheel"
Book(s): Harry Potter, Kenneth Oppel's Airborn series, a ton of manga like Ouran High School Host Club, Kuroshitsuji, Soul Eater, Hetalia, Azumanga Daioh… yeah. :o
Movie(s): Back to the Future, Big Fish, Chicago, Titanic, and basically all of Tim Burton's other movies as well
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