Очень, на мой взгляд важно, уметь делать две вещи. 1) Если не выходит, отойти в сторону и заняться чем-то еще. Потом - вернуться и доделать. Лучший отдых - смена деятельности. 2) Если первое не помогло, важно уметь взять в руки то что ты делал(а), и как следует запустить им в стену. Чтобы вдребезги. Мой дядя так говорит что кубик Рубика надо продавать в наборе с кувалдой, чтобы стресс снимать в который он тебя вгоняет.
That definetely is not a livejournal conversation.... come over one day.... we will have a chat. Just think of things that you enjoy the most, that give you pleasure, the good kind, the self-respecting, not the indulging one, and keep doing those no matter what your mood or inclination. That is my motto.=)
I knew this would happen. Everyone just blames it on the hormones and growing out of the silly teenager stage. I agree that it is likely part of it. There is a lot to discover and understand. But there are people who don't grow out of some issues, more so their fears and opinions engrave deeper into the mind. That makes all the difference. You figure it out, or just leave it be. You look at some people, they are 60 and still learning, still figuring something out and then there are the people who are 30 and consider themselves old and not growing. Questions need to resolved.
I think you stepped into a bigger world and now opened up to a bigger reality. The tight groups of friends dispersed each in their own direction. The monotone and simple life of high school switched to a multi-directional and complex world of where to go and what to do - oh so many different ways. No one is telling you what to do anymore. Or at least not to that extent, because now you have a stronger opinion and more respect from others. You grew up.
I guess to each his own, but IMHO to get somewhere without loosing yourself you have to know yourself and be sure in yourself. Stepping into bigger picture knocks that out of you a little bit. It confuses you and makes you feel tiny, small and insignificant. You stand up to it and fight it, but without the realization of who you are and where you really need to go you can't. You don't have the basis of what you now represent. And you remain small and insignificant. Collect your thoughts. Weigh things out. Take a step. And it will go from there.
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1) Если не выходит, отойти в сторону и заняться чем-то еще. Потом - вернуться и доделать. Лучший отдых - смена деятельности.
2) Если первое не помогло, важно уметь взять в руки то что ты делал(а), и как следует запустить им в стену. Чтобы вдребезги. Мой дядя так говорит что кубик Рубика надо продавать в наборе с кувалдой, чтобы стресс снимать в который он тебя вгоняет.
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: A kogda eto zakanchivaetsya?
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Just think of things that you enjoy the most, that give you pleasure, the good kind, the self-respecting, not the indulging one, and keep doing those no matter what your mood or inclination. That is my motto.=)
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I agree that it is likely part of it. There is a lot to discover and understand. But there are people who don't grow out of some issues, more so their fears and opinions engrave deeper into the mind. That makes all the difference. You figure it out, or just leave it be.
You look at some people, they are 60 and still learning, still figuring something out and then there are the people who are 30 and consider themselves old and not growing.
Questions need to resolved.
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I guess to each his own, but IMHO to get somewhere without loosing yourself you have to know yourself and be sure in yourself. Stepping into bigger picture knocks that out of you a little bit. It confuses you and makes you feel tiny, small and insignificant. You stand up to it and fight it, but without the realization of who you are and where you really need to go you can't. You don't have the basis of what you now represent. And you remain small and insignificant. Collect your thoughts. Weigh things out. Take a step. And it will go from there.
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