POOF! *is a man now*

[polly_oliver]

Yep. I decided to step firmly over the line, instead of straddling it. Maybe that makes me binarist, but honestly, who cares? I'm just trying to be happy.

Still a genderqueer sort of man, but anyway. What? I like dresses! Can men not wear dresses? Now who's being the gender police!

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Just a few more years, then I get to go on T. Hopefully less time

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[jjfroberger]

So smoking is bad. Probably that is how my dad is going to die, probably sooner rather than later, just like my grandmother. Lung cancer is no fun. My grandmother slowly drowned in all the fluids seeping into the lump of confused tissue that used to be her lungs. Honestly her death did not affect me too much, but it seems like a very uncomfortable and frustrating way to go. And cutting yourself is even much worse, but at least you recognize your problems and work on them.

But anyway I am happy for your decision. I get to naturally enjoy the effects of testosterone every day, so I guess I should appreciate it more.

[polly_oliver]

Smoking is definitely bad, but for some reason I really like it. I finished my pack yesterday, though, and I don't think I'll buy another one for a while. I certainly won't go out of my way to do so. I've stopped cutting for the nonce, though.

And you should definitely appreciate being cisgender! Being transgender has its advantages too, but being cis is a lot easier.