I admit I know nothing about how to grieve properly or how to help others through their own.
I can't articulate my feels always, I can't respond how maybe people think I should, but I can listen.
Message me on anytime hangouts/any other place you want. Even ring me up on there, and I'll listen for as long as you need. If you want to exchange stories of Aggy, anything at all. I don't want you to feel like you're alone, we're with you.
Some people don't yet know, and that definitely creates a disparity, for them they don't realise anything is different, for everyone else the world has been knocked off its spin, and I can never be restored.
I remember when I first met Aggy. On gsd_fandom. She was the first fellow asexual person I ever met. For me that was a stepping stone up into accepting that was who I was, because she just made it sound like such a normal thing. She had such an influence on so many people we can't forget her.
I'm so, so sorry, polo. My heart aches for you and everyone who knew her, and for the fandom more largely who loved her works and her presence on all the fests and comms. She was a major figure in the fandom, and her loss will be felt for a long time. She collab'd with Texas and I know a lot of us are still reeling from her loss as well. (Texas introduced me to Chatzy, in an odd coincidence, but I've never gone in there much, despite everyone always being amazingly nice and supportive there.)
Nothing is really adequate to say, but I'm here for you in any way you need. Sending you great big hugs and all my thoughts and wishes. Love, daroh
Because I was busy during the week and didn't get a chance to get in chatzy, I didn't know about her passing until today. I didn't know her well but can so very clearly see her ID in chat. I'm so sorry about you losing such a wonderful friend.
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I admit I know nothing about how to grieve properly or how to help others through their own.
I can't articulate my feels always, I can't respond how maybe people think I should, but I can listen.
Message me on anytime hangouts/any other place you want. Even ring me up on there, and I'll listen for as long as you need. If you want to exchange stories of Aggy, anything at all. I don't want you to feel like you're alone, we're with you.
Some people don't yet know, and that definitely creates a disparity, for them they don't realise anything is different, for everyone else the world has been knocked off its spin, and I can never be restored.
I remember when I first met Aggy. On gsd_fandom. She was the first fellow asexual person I ever met. For me that was a stepping stone up into accepting that was who I was, because she just made it sound like such a normal thing. She had such an influence on so many people we can't forget her.
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Nothing is really adequate to say, but I'm here for you in any way you need. Sending you great big hugs and all my thoughts and wishes. Love, daroh
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Because I was busy during the week and didn't get a chance to get in chatzy, I didn't know about her passing until today. I didn't know her well but can so very clearly see her ID in chat. I'm so sorry about you losing such a wonderful friend.
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