You cannot let yourself get worked up about statistics you read on the internet. Brain tumor survival data (especially for benign tumors) is hugely inaccurate, because surgical techniques have improved so drastically over the last 10 years. And it also can vary hugely from surgeon to surgeon. The lesson here is to take the time you need to find the surgeon who is right for you. I talked to 12 different neurosurgeons up and down the east coast before I found the one I was most comfortable with. They all have expertise in different parts of the skull. You have to find the one who has dealt with the most cases like yours. By the way, as you are in Chicago, I'd see about getting an appointment at the Mayo Clinic. They have some very excellent sugeons there
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ditto ditto dittoazaleOctober 12 2008, 16:36:39 UTC
Statistics - almost useless for predicting what will happen in a particular BT case.
Mayo - Outstanding BT center. Though, I'm sad to say, my guy there retired this year. He did brain surgery on Ronald Reagan!
Wingperson - I was fortunate to have my wife go with me to all the important visits. There is no way anyone can absorb all the information that's going to be thrown at you.
I've always been a horrible note taker: I always assume I'll remember everything. This one time I made an exception. I went so far as to take a digital sound recorder. They're relatively cheap and SO useful. I didn't want to miss one syllable and now I have it all. YMMV.
Re: ditto ditto dittopolyannnaOctober 13 2008, 04:24:53 UTC
Thank you thank you thank you for all your kind words of wisdom and experience. You guys are like a lifeline to me, seriously.
I do wish I had someone I could bring with me to consultations. There really isn't anyone who can come with me, sad but true. But I love your idea of simply recording everything for later playback. I'm definitely going to do that. Heck, I can't even keep track of everything my vet tells me about my special needs cats without taking written notes - I'm not taking any chances of missing a vital piece of information when it comes to my brain!!!
And thanks SO MUCH for the links to resources. I am going to have a lot of good informative reading to do!
Thank you for the info. I must admit, when I read that stat, it did freak me out a little bit.
And thanks so very much for the tip on how to find the right surgeon. I knew I would need to get a second and maybe a third and fourth opinion, but I am so utterly clueless when it comes to anything to do with doctors, hospitals, insurance etc., I had no idea where to start or what to look for. Thank you so much!
"They all have expertise in different parts of the skull. You have to find the one who has dealt with the most cases like yours." you said.
Those two simple lines have given me a direction, a line of inquiry to follow. I really can't thank you enough.
I was not "supposed to be walking,talking, breathing or knitting" let alone alive when my brain tumor was diagnosed. I was also not given great odds that I would live thru my open brain surgery.
The stats truly mean nothing. What is important is YOUR experience.
Re: you're RIGHT!!!!befersOctober 14 2008, 02:52:00 UTC
I had a mental checklist that I wanted to go through when I woke up from sugery... wiggle my fingers and toes, try to smile, see if I can smell something, check for double vision. I vaguely recall attempting to do those things, but I have no idea if I actually did... it certainly seemed real at the time.
By the way, it's not a forgone conclusion that you will need surgery. Focused radiation techniques have come a very long way, and depending on the type of tumor and your surgeon, you may be a good candidate for radiosurgery. No actual cuts at all. Make sure you ask about that, too, at your appointments. Common names for that are Gamma Knife and Linac. And also don't be surprised if they tell you that they want to wait and get another scan in a few months. Sometimes they want to see what a tumor is doing before they make a decision on the best course of action.
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Mayo - Outstanding BT center. Though, I'm sad to say, my guy there retired this year. He did brain surgery on Ronald Reagan!
Wingperson - I was fortunate to have my wife go with me to all the important visits. There is no way anyone can absorb all the information that's going to be thrown at you.
I've always been a horrible note taker: I always assume I'll remember everything. This one time I made an exception. I went so far as to take a digital sound recorder. They're relatively cheap and SO useful. I didn't want to miss one syllable and now I have it all. YMMV.
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I do wish I had someone I could bring with me to consultations. There really isn't anyone who can come with me, sad but true. But I love your idea of simply recording everything for later playback. I'm definitely going to do that. Heck, I can't even keep track of everything my vet tells me about my special needs cats without taking written notes - I'm not taking any chances of missing a vital piece of information when it comes to my brain!!!
And thanks SO MUCH for the links to resources. I am going to have a lot of good informative reading to do!
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Thank you for the info. I must admit, when I read that stat, it did freak me out a little bit.
And thanks so very much for the tip on how to find the right surgeon. I knew I would need to get a second and maybe a third and fourth opinion, but I am so utterly clueless when it comes to anything to do with doctors, hospitals, insurance etc., I had no idea where to start or what to look for. Thank you so much!
"They all have expertise in different parts of the skull. You have to find the one who has dealt with the most cases like yours." you said.
Those two simple lines have given me a direction, a line of inquiry to follow. I really can't thank you enough.
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Knock it off!!! NOW!!!
I was not "supposed to be walking,talking, breathing or knitting" let alone alive when my brain tumor was diagnosed. I was also not given great odds that I would live thru my open brain surgery.
The stats truly mean nothing. What is important is YOUR experience.
So, quit it and be nicer to YOU!
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I see myself waking up from surgery with a big smile on my face, happy to be alive.
How's that?
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By the way, it's not a forgone conclusion that you will need surgery. Focused radiation techniques have come a very long way, and depending on the type of tumor and your surgeon, you may be a good candidate for radiosurgery. No actual cuts at all. Make sure you ask about that, too, at your appointments. Common names for that are Gamma Knife and Linac. And also don't be surprised if they tell you that they want to wait and get another scan in a few months. Sometimes they want to see what a tumor is doing before they make a decision on the best course of action.
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