i would pay too, because i would feel bad, and secondly, i think everyone would just want to settle things quickly and proceed with the day, and thirdly, i bet the situation was bad enough, and yet they weren't helping.
yes exactly mas. i just feel so angry and mad but my parents forbid me from sms-ing that idiot guy to pay because they say this is all about values and we cant force a person. he can say "well its not me who damaged it, what.."
sucks ah mas. i still feel like sms-ing or calling him to confront but then it will create bad blood. just not satisfied. when it comes to money issues its very serious :(
i understand where your parents are coming from, and they're right about the values part. if he had great/better values and moral, he would have probably offered to chip in voluntarily.
and sometimes we want to confront them because they shouldnt have behaved that way, but it's unnecessary too, because from this incident im sure you learn something from it, which is never to hang out with such people often, cause they're not really friends-material.
confronting him will only make him think you're desperate for him to pay. instead, just steer clear of such people because they're not worth your time. =)
thanks mas dearie..i guess its true that i shouldnt confront him due to the perception of being 'desperate'. then again im glad my parents are fighting for this case. hopefully something good comes out of it. yes that's why i tell myself there will be no next time hanging out with this couple. this incident proves to me that doesnt mean passive people are nice. they can be ignorant and cause harm.
no lah girl tak perlu confront the person uh. at least the 4 of you now knows what sort of person the other couple is...and too bad mungkin next time takde org nak kluar dengan dorang lagi!
yah tu ah..ikutkan hati tu hari pat estate JB tu aku dah maki hamun dia..girlfriend dia pon buat bodoh jer..fed up betol..hati sakit siak.
lakik aku cakap u can never change a person, a kedekut will always be a kedekut. but still..as what you have stated, aku tak akan keluar ngan couple tu lagi. satu hari maybe tuhan pon tunjukkan if they kedekut sangat.
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really selfish people. tsk.
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sucks ah mas. i still feel like sms-ing or calling him to confront but then it will create bad blood. just not satisfied. when it comes to money issues its very serious :(
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and sometimes we want to confront them because they shouldnt have behaved that way, but it's unnecessary too, because from this incident im sure you learn something from it, which is never to hang out with such people often, cause they're not really friends-material.
confronting him will only make him think you're desperate for him to pay. instead, just steer clear of such people because they're not worth your time. =)
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lakik aku cakap u can never change a person, a kedekut will always be a kedekut. but still..as what you have stated, aku tak akan keluar ngan couple tu lagi. satu hari maybe tuhan pon tunjukkan if they kedekut sangat.
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