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I was trying to figure out why I was so irritated by this behavior...
so my friend likes to ask people to do things for her or hold things for her or find things for her even though she can do it herself and I'm usually okay with it until I realized she's just taking advantage of anyone around her by making us do things for her.
the latest case was just a simple "remind me when this thing happens in Jun" and I was like, set a calendar reminder in your own calendar yourself.
I hate that she's putting that task on me and my eldest daughter syndrome is making me want to complete the task for her coz I'm wired that way but I'm tired of it. I don't want to keep being responsible for her. Especially since she's not even family. She's a very good friend but even then, there's a limit. Especially since I know she always does this thing where she makes other people do things for her.
She could very well just put a reminder in her phone herself and not even say those words out loud but because she said it out loud and I'm not doing it for her, I will feel guilty for not helping to remind her when the thing happens in Jun.
I mean, more power to her for being able to ask other people for help but I always felt taken advantage of when she does it. I could never and I know it's my own personality flaw sigh...
I also don't want to talk to her about this and make it a big deal coz it's really not a big deal (in other people's eyes) but somehow it bugs me a lot... sigh...
I hope she don't see this lol