If you don't want to talk to her- erase her from your life. Don't make any sort of threats of any sort of action against her, don't make wild rants about her in your journal she might see, don't say anything that could tick her off or get her to defend herself. You say you don't want her to talk to you, yet you have been blatantly inviting some sort of response in your last few entries- making a threat like "the truth will be let out"... You don't honestly expect someone to ignore that do you? If you really want her to leave you alone, leave her alone.
Don't talk about her here unless the entry is friends locked. Block her IM names. Delete emails from her without reading them. Don't return phone calls. Simple as that, she'll be out of your life, you'll be out of hers, situation dealt with. Entries like this are simply begging for a response from her, they won't do a damn thing to accomplish your stated goal of not talking to her. If you want her out of your life completely... start acting like you do.
Saying she's doing this, and presenting reliable evidence she's doing this, are two entirely different things. Throwing out accusations against her like that- without any third party evidence to back it up, is no better than what you are accusing her of. Point to LJ posts, message boards, whatever... if you have good reasons to level these accusations, why aren't you showing them?
If you have evidence, show it. My original point was just friendly advice... you can't expect her to remain silent if you are throwing out challenges like "the truth will be known"... But now, leveling accusations like this without backing it up, well, if it doesn't get backed up in your response to this you might as well not bother responding, I'll ignore it.
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Don't talk about her here unless the entry is friends locked. Block her IM names. Delete emails from her without reading them. Don't return phone calls. Simple as that, she'll be out of your life, you'll be out of hers, situation dealt with. Entries like this are simply begging for a response from her, they won't do a damn thing to accomplish your stated goal of not talking to her. If you want her out of your life completely... start acting like you do.
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If you have evidence, show it. My original point was just friendly advice... you can't expect her to remain silent if you are throwing out challenges like "the truth will be known"... But now, leveling accusations like this without backing it up, well, if it doesn't get backed up in your response to this you might as well not bother responding, I'll ignore it.
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